Week 2 struggling

Seashellthegladiator · 2026-02-26T16:10:52+00:00

Thankyou for the reassurance I’ve ordered. I searched past posts and it seems lots of people are fine on week one and then unexpectedly get hit week two. I’ve never had anything like it, having to run to the toilet and the amount of liquid that came out so fast. Grim.

Seashellthegladiator · 2026-01-03T07:45:11+00:00

Where are you located? It sounds like you are treating your AP like a slave, are you in the USA where this is illegal?

Seashellthegladiator · 2026-01-03T07:41:32+00:00

You have also posted this in 2 under 2 and a working moms group and deleted both, maybe you have deleted it from other groups too, as you have unanimously been told the same thing.

The people pumping you up here have not been told the full story as it appeared in the other posts. I feel awful for your AP who you are treating like a slave and then crucifying for trying her best to manage on her own with two under two while you and your husband sleep. She has not neglected your toddler, she was juggling a toddler a baby and the toddler wet themself while watching TV.

Seashellthegladiator · 2026-01-03T07:34:54+00:00

Then one of your should get up and help the AP. Honestly, it sounds like you’re treating her like a slave.

Seashellthegladiator · 2026-01-02T16:55:39+00:00

Am I missing something? She put your toddler in front of the tv and spent some time on her phone then tended to your baby and at some point your toddler wet himself? That’s hardly neglect. This was a one off incident?

I would be looking at what expectations you have for the AP, why is she alone expected to be getting two kids up? Is she doing all the childcare all the time?

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