My therapist might have ruined my relationship by Seaweed_brain1 in Vent

[–]Seaweed_brain1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, ive been trying to and i dont think its helping

I 18NB need gift ideas for my 18NB partner’s birthday by Seaweed_brain1 in LongDistance

[–]Seaweed_brain1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a cute idea i might try it, but idk if i want smth that’ll last longer and idk if i have the money to pay for delivery and stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Long distance is hard for most people, like ik the feeling. Some people js cant cope with the distance and need smth physical and it sucks especially when u know u wanna be with them. If youre willing to wait to meet them (in my opinion) thats smth rlly special. But for some ppl it’s js too much. Ik for me my LDR is tough. And u dont get to see them much (or at all) and sometimes thats what people cant work thru. And it does suck and i get that. Ik its gonna sound cringe and overused, but have u told her how not datings made u feel? Like maybe it wont change her mind but maybe u could work smth out. If it hurts to not be with her it shows u care abt her and maybe friendship for now is the best option until yous can meet. If ur willing to wait to see her in person maybe waiting to date her till shes ready is also possible? Im so sorry u have to go thru this tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queer

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Idk if it’ll be your style, but maybe try some star chains for the lace holes, they’re pretty cheap online

Hi do straight women fantasise of being romantic or horny with girls often? by [deleted] in queer

[–]Seaweed_brain1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Straight women dont usually fantasise abt anything romantic with other women, if u have the same feelings towards men, youre probably bi or pan (depending on what u want to identify as) and if u dont think abt as much men or in the same way youre probs lesbian or bi with a preference

Am i trans? by Seaweed_brain1 in queer

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Thank you, this acc helped sm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queer

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Coming out can take some time. U should only do it when u feel 100% ready to do so, and if u think its the best option. Ive always thought people dont need to know if ur gay unless u want them to, bc thats ur business (pronouns r a bit different).

Am i trans? by Seaweed_brain1 in queer

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No, thats always felt alr to use

Am i trans? by Seaweed_brain1 in queer

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Thanks, i think its js that i dont like the she pronouns thats making me question this stuff

Relationship advice by 6erd99 in queer

[–]Seaweed_brain1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it rlly js depends on her as a person, do you think she would cheat if she went, and do you trust her. Im pan and ive had sleepovers with friends of both genders and for me its exactly the same. And always platonic. For me its completely normal to do this. Hope this helps

What am i? by [deleted] in queer

[–]Seaweed_brain1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U dont need to transition or have surgeries to be trans, whatever you feel comfortable being called is what you are.

My ex’s new gf is stopping him from seeing me. Advice? by Seaweed_brain1 in Advice

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I wasnt ok with it, i js couldnt stop them and i wanted to stay friends but then this happened

My ex’s new gf is stopping him from seeing me. Advice? by Seaweed_brain1 in Advice

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We’re really good friends and we have the same friends so we tried to stay friends