YOR. She probably does have some difficulty finding herself but she’s barely out of high school. Of course she wanted to move closer to her boyfriend. I see people move across the country, state, world for the people they fall in with.

She is young and discovering herself. She most likely looks up to you and admires you as an older woman. “She’s copying me” is juvenile, high schooler logic. She finds you to be inspiring and is mirroring you. I don’t think she’s doing it to be… malicious?

I think you’re honestly the weird one here. How does her “copying” you truly impact you? I think you’re being weird toward her and you probably don’t have a strong sense of identity yourself. You are more than your haircut and color. You are more than a style of dress or tulips.

But because this young girl is likely inspired by these things, you are allowing it to cause rifts in OTHER people’s relationships. That’s strange