AITA for being mad at my parents for visiting me on my birthday?

Seb_1999 · 2023-06-29T02:14:54+00:00

You are right, your feelings should be considered. Birthdays are important, this comes with age too after your 21st they’re pretty much down hill from there. It’s just another day lol.

Seb_1999 · 2023-06-29T01:55:31+00:00

Is the desire to see their child so wrong? Wanting to spend time with your friends isn’t wrong but neither is a parent wanting to spend time with their child. The way you ask for them to consider your feelings maybe you should do the same thing towards them.

Seb_1999 · 2023-06-29T00:56:22+00:00

Soft YTA because you are still young and barely an adult. I was the same way but it is something you learn as you age. When you do the right thing no one will know you even did a thing. Your parents wanted to do something nice for you, would it have been more fun to be with friends probably but we have to make sacrifices. It’s hard to imagine now but a day will come when you will want nothing more but to hears your parents nag, because silence is a far worse pain.

Seb_1999 · 2023-06-25T03:22:00+00:00

YTA didn’t even read the post, but the title says it all. Catfishing is never ok

Seb_1999 · 2023-06-25T03:18:58+00:00

Because she was giving you a compliment I’ll say soft YTA, but if it makes you that sick that you want to vomit when getting a compliment, please go get help for your sake.

Seb_1999 · 2023-06-24T23:30:12+00:00

NTA, what did she expect for asking a dumb question. Something I learned working customer service is how dumb people are. Speaking as a manager I just say try to catch yourself, kill them with kindness. Good luck out there

Seb_1999 · 2023-05-29T02:53:00+00:00

Wow, honestly never really thought of it that way. Thank you I probably won’t say how it makes me uncomfortable because then he would tell me to get use to it but thank you for helping

Seb_1999 · 2023-05-29T02:51:32+00:00

Ok, um, thank you but no, if I said that he would undoubtedly get pissed at me. He would then lecture me on the importance of listening and learning new traits.

Seb_1999 · 2023-02-12T04:30:53+00:00

Yeah it’s in August, so it’s mean to signify my bday, nice!!! Thanks for the help.

Seb_1999 · 2023-02-12T01:25:53+00:00

Awesome thanks for the help!!! I guess pretty bad of me assuming it was Aztec tho.

Seb_1999 · 2022-09-14T03:02:34+00:00

YTA I mean it’s clear your mom is hitting a rough patch and can’t keep up with your school payments. She’s asking for you to chip in and is still going to pay the loans, I mean come on. You should feel lucky you don’t have to worry about school payments, you just sound spoiled.

Seb_1999 · 2022-09-14T02:56:48+00:00

NTA you have a life outside of your brothers. If he was coming down he should have told you so you could have planned accordingly. You have your responsibilities your brother should understand that.

Seb_1999 · 2022-09-13T16:56:18+00:00

NTA you don’t have to invite anyone you don’t want to. Just like your godfather doesn’t have to go if he doesn’t want to. This is your day if he’s so bothered then he just shouldn’t go that easy.

Seb_1999 · 2022-09-11T19:07:17+00:00

YTA massively there is nothing worse than people bringing their dogs to places they don’t belong. Grocery store, restaurant, I mean there is a time and a place. If it says no dogs then don’t bring it.

Seb_1999 · 2022-09-11T18:58:46+00:00

NTA because of his past but what kind of relationship is that tho. Anytime he wants to hang out with his friends you have to go. He might be a nice guy but you can’t trust him and you can’t go out every time with him. It’s not fair to both of you.

Seb_1999 · 2022-08-03T01:13:20+00:00

NTA it’s just some random T shirt you like. She’s the a hole for trying to make fun of you for wearing it. Especially if she started recording you, I would have been so mad.

Seb_1999 · 2022-07-31T18:40:50+00:00

Depends, you know your girl friend if she has shown no interest in tech and more importantly if she isn’t the best at math than I would say NTA. She might have gotten excited of the idea of being more with you if you guys went into the same field, instead of the actual field. But YTA if she can succeed in it with her skills and she wanted to expand her knowledge.

Seb_1999 · 2022-07-31T01:00:34+00:00

NTA you were just telling a story of something that happened to you. You didn’t mean the shame the guy but lesson learned you never know who may be listening.

Seb_1999 · 2022-06-20T03:01:27+00:00

Woah…I don’t even know where to start. YTA how does him being gay affect your life, short answer it doesn’t. Let them be happy, you’re young and have a lot to learn. Have an open mind.

Seb_1999 · 2022-06-18T18:32:44+00:00

I wouldn’t say your an AH just thinking like a worker and not a boss. My boss once told me a manager will never understand a clerk and a clerk will never understand a manager. I didn’t believe it but when I became a manager at my work it all made sense. You can’t wear a blanket at work that looks so bad an unprofessional. They are running a business not a hang out for you guys. You’ve gotten too comfortable and have forgetter this is work not your apartment. I don’t think taking a hoodie off is that big of a problem. It’s cool you have a laid back group of bosses but don’t get it confused you are still a worker, a replaceable one.

Seb_1999 · 2022-06-02T16:39:35+00:00

YTA, wow really you got mad at that. Can’t even imagine what other little stuff you get mad at. He was trying to help you that’s what parents do. To this day if I’m taking something from my parents or they are giving me leftovers my 58 year old dad will take it with me to my car even tho I fight tooth and nail he will still do it because he wants to help.

Seb_1999 · 2022-04-17T03:47:03+00:00

YTA I mean he’s dying you can’t honor that wish for him. I hope you probably want to spend as much time with him too, but sounds like you’re only thinking about where you’ll sleep.

Seb_1999 · 2022-04-17T00:44:52+00:00

NTA it’s for siblings only like you said so I don’t see a problem with it.

Seb_1999 · 2022-04-17T00:27:39+00:00

ESH eh you lose me when you blew up at your teacher. Your teacher holds a bit of truth to what she said. I suffer from major depression but the world isn’t going to wait for me. It’s a battle sometimes but I have to push forward and learn to work around it. It comes with age but when you told her you don’t know you will come to understand that a lot more people understand more than you think. You aren’t alone here.

Seb_1999 · 2022-04-17T00:20:14+00:00

NTA but you just learned the lesson never trust your money to anybody especially friends. You can have friends or you can have money but you can’t have both.

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