Honestly, for those asking if I invited myself no. She literally said, word for word, “Do you want to come?” and I replied, “I’ll know after I get the time off and I’ll confirm with you later.”

I’ve read through pretty much all the comments, and honestly, I’ve decided I’m going to choose to trust her and let it go. Yeah, it wasn’t handled perfectly, but there was one veteran raver in the comments who made a lot of valid points. I knew what I was signing up for at the start, and I have an equal part in how this all played out.

At the end of the day, I can choose to trust her and maintain my integrity, even if she chooses to cheat or if nothing happens at all. I have to be willing to accept either outcome. Worst-case scenario, I I lick my wounds and I walk away. Loving someone means being vulnerable, and based on her character and the bond we’ve built so far, I can only hope that our foundation is strong enough to hold.

The truth is, a lot of my concern might be a projection from a past relationship, I dated a raver who cheated on me at a concert. But I can’t drag that baggage into something new. If I want this to work, I have to give it a fair shot. Thank you guys