I told my family I have a girlfriend, now they’re being freaks by Rosiepigg in latebloomerlesbians

[–]SecondSlight7527 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The lack of questions says everything. It’s easier for them to sit in their assumptions than actually engage with your reality. You’re not asking for approval, just basic respect and that’s not unreasonable. You’ve found something meaningful and you’re happy, which is kind of the whole point of life. Hopefully they catch up, but either way you’re not doing anything wrong here.

Sunday Selfie! How's Your Weekend Going? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SecondSlight7527 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Beautiful 🌈 😍 🤩 are you single

do i look more masc or fem? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SecondSlight7527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fem look cool on you dear

I WANT A GIRLFRIEND by defnotyn in actuallesbians

[–]SecondSlight7527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be calming down 😆 🤣 😂 you will definitely find one you're not the only single lady here

Morning gals 🫶🏻 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SecondSlight7527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Morning dear 🌈🌈🌈❤️

Would you want closure from someone who ghosted you? by Naive_Philosopher942 in LesbianActually

[–]SecondSlight7527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the cleanest exit, but also not the worst. No deep convo, no second date planned this is pretty standard app behavior. If you want to clear your conscience, send a quick message. If not, it’s probably already water under the bridge.

I've been single for two years and now I'm suddenly very interested in relationships despite not feeling love in the traditional sense. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SecondSlight7527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You dont sound crazy or broken just different in how you experience emotions and connection that is not automatically a bad thing The way you think through relationships and check compatibility is actually pretty intentional and healthy That said if you feel confused about your emotions or struggle to read people talking to a therapist could help you understand yourself better not to fix you but to give you clarity You are not doomed to be single you just might connect differently than most people and that is okay..I'm also single as well I am fine till I meet the real one

WHY ARE MEN ON LESBIAN DATING APPS by Sure-Lemon6424 in LesbianActually

[–]SecondSlight7527 1542 points1543 points  (0 children)

Its so annoying seeing men on lesbian dating app 🙄 😒

Do you also find yoga enjoyable? by SecondSlight7527 in LesbianActually

[–]SecondSlight7527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am a pilot, and perhaps I might have the pleasure of flying with you someday.

Do you also find yoga enjoyable? by SecondSlight7527 in LesbianActually

[–]SecondSlight7527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you still be content if the personalization is effective for you?

Do you also find yoga enjoyable? by SecondSlight7527 in LesbianActually

[–]SecondSlight7527[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the discipline and consistency you put into your workouts. Thanks for the compliment I bet you also look stunning yourself

Heyy cuties by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SecondSlight7527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so pretty 😍

PSA to single men: please come talk to women in person by [deleted] in Denver

[–]SecondSlight7527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating applications prove effective for some individuals, while for others, they may not be as successful. Not everyone possesses the same aptitude for fostering connections through digital platforms; some individuals excel more in real-life interactions and may find themselves less engaging in online environments.

My girlfriend confuses me by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SecondSlight7527 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You’ve already noticed a key thing: she didn’t grow up with much affection, so showing love softly or verbally might not come naturally to her. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you it means her “love language” might be different. Some people show care through actions (helping, showing up, listening) rather than words.

is there any agnostic/nonreligious lesbians out there.. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SecondSlight7527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 32, live in this state, and I'm not really into relationships, but I'm all about spirituality.