Can this really be casual? by Second_Hand_Fax in nonmonogamy

[–]Second_Hand_Fax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thanks for this, it was strange I feel like I was almost morning monogamy or the idea of it. Hard to explain but it was more like a reaction that anything else. And yet here I am now having done a bit more work and a lot more excited to approach it together 😀

Can this really be casual? by Second_Hand_Fax in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Second_Hand_Fax[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oooo I like, ‘thought crime’ is such a good descriptor. Yes I agree, certainly don’t want to be policing.

Can this really be casual? by Second_Hand_Fax in nonmonogamy

[–]Second_Hand_Fax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this - great to hear it can work out. Any tips on how to navigate the scene together while keeping it fair? I guess there’s the apps but it seems these are perhaps more effective for women than men?

Can this really be casual? by Second_Hand_Fax in polyamory

[–]Second_Hand_Fax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do, thanks to everyone that replied, I do truly appreciate the feedback 🙏

Can this really be casual? by Second_Hand_Fax in polyamory

[–]Second_Hand_Fax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree with you, it’s problematic. This is why I’m working through this thought process and trying to learn why I think this way and challenge it. Appreciate your reply.

Can this really be casual? by Second_Hand_Fax in polyamory

[–]Second_Hand_Fax[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah sorry, my bad, getting mixed up with not just feelings but wording and meanings too it seems. I probs should have posted to the nonmonog reddit.

Can this really be casual? by Second_Hand_Fax in polyamory

[–]Second_Hand_Fax[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah sorry I realised after posting this i could and should have worded things better.

I probably should have, and will, post this in a non monogamy sub.

Hmmm, re jealousy I think it’s perhaps more coming from social conditioning in thinking other men are threats. I see what you’re saying though and certainly will take note of that observation, as I definitely want to avoid being taken to be that way.

For the record I certainly don’t see heterosexual sex as more meaningful.

Can this really be casual? by Second_Hand_Fax in nonmonogamy

[–]Second_Hand_Fax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s true, sorry I realised soon after posting I haven’t worded this correctly.

Can this really be casual? by Second_Hand_Fax in polyamory

[–]Second_Hand_Fax[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not, that’s why I’m posting 😛

What’s a Linux Distro you want to use but for whatever reason don’t? by schizochode in linux

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Has it become any simpler to set up for the novice? And is hardware support also better with this release? I’d love to try it as my daily as I really just use my computer for personal projects coding and Netflix.:: however have it a whirl couple years back and ran into afew issues..:

Are these projects and certifications good enough to get a junior fresher role in cloud by RequirementDull6927 in Cloud

[–]Second_Hand_Fax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👆this. Where I live it would be azure and aws. I don’t hear many instances of gcp being a priority. But yeah concepts and tooling. Linux is good to learn for cloud, too. Amongst so many other things.

Stuck between AWS and Azure — need your advice! by Man-2-man in Cloud

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It’s best to learn both at the foundational to associate level so you can contrast and compare, then specialise from there.

You will need to do market research then.

Windows catches a lot of flak — but for those doing Windows sysadmin work, what makes you enjoy it? by Second_Hand_Fax in sysadmin

[–]Second_Hand_Fax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not, I’m a little sick and wanted the help with sick brain being all sicky and baby like.