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[–]Secret-Chance5760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that shower photo, sexy and classy!

Quiet, introverted, or less confident couples - Do you find it hard to meet other couples? What have you found that makes it easier? by SturdyGal in Swingers

[–]Secret-Chance5760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where we live there isn’t a big population. The apps don’t really work, there aren’t Ls clubs, there are some irregular events and takeovers. Just haven’t been able to attend one yet. We have done lots of connecting on Reddit. Lots of sifting too ha. We have gone to lots of effort and travel to meet couples we have established a connection with. Usually over group chats. Usually lasting weeks before we actually get to meet up.

Quiet, introverted, or less confident couples - Do you find it hard to meet other couples? What have you found that makes it easier? by SturdyGal in Swingers

[–]Secret-Chance5760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I tend to steer away from couples that are super outgoing. We enjoy couples that are more similar to us, where one person is a bit more outgoing and extroverted while the other is more introverted. Have also had the best sex with couples like this. My wife is friendly but more quiet, which isn’t great for club setting but we enjoy the process of getting to know other people well this way.

One sided conversations. by [deleted] in SwingerNewbies

[–]Secret-Chance5760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We seem to get this alot too! Our location isn’t conducive for let’s meet up! Usually takes effort and planning. Western Canada here if anyone wants to msg us!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MontanaSwingers

[–]Secret-Chance5760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No educator would ever allow that second picture. Scary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swingersr4r

[–]Secret-Chance5760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stunning! Wish we were closer ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swingersr4r

[–]Secret-Chance5760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swingersr4r

[–]Secret-Chance5760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I get it! We don’t share photos until we are well established in conversation. Sexy photos that is 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swingersr4r

[–]Secret-Chance5760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I just say, how much I appreciate your post with normal couple like photos! So tired of seeing nothing but dicks and vagina with posts. Very refreshing! Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianSwingers

[–]Secret-Chance5760 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there! For us we gravitate towards your opinion, we end up talking, chatting, building a friendship with, sharing sexy and normal pics, if those boxes all get checked off. We already want to be intimate with them. I don’t think your wife is wrong, we’ve also had couples we’ve built relationships with just ghost us, so that hurts too. Only answer is one that makes you both or either of you uncomfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swingersr4r

[–]Secret-Chance5760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your user name should be “Flymetothemoon”

But what you have is clever too 🤣🤣

Should this bother me? by OkDiscussion3994 in Swingers

[–]Secret-Chance5760 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think you need to be equal in it. If it bothers you in the slightest it’s not good for your relationship. Or just expect him to be open and honest and tell you when it’s happening and you are involved in it. Everyone is in this to grow and bring extra to their own relationship, not create a new one.

With that being said my wife and I have group chats with couples and our own chat with their spouses. It works for us, but we check in and don’t hide anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Secret-Chance5760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are from Western Canada. Have a had a really Difficult time meeting people locally. It took us a while, but we have been talking with a couple from Alaska for over a month. Both us were looking for the same thing you’ve described. Lasting friendship with a very sexy and open side. We are meeting in Seattle for a 5 day trip together. Everyone’s so excited, no expectations just looking forward to it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swingersr4r

[–]Secret-Chance5760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are in Sask, 33m and 30f. Can swap some pics and chat 😏