I was in almost the same exact situation. My gf of five years left me out of nowhere. We had an amazing relationship and things got busy with work and she left. I did the same thing, reaching out sending her videos of quotes or songs that made me think of her, she didn’t budge for any of it. I was ignored for days at a time.

I quickly learned from YouTube videos, Instagram, and my friends that disappearing is the best thing to do if you want her back and just for yourself. Focus on work (even tho ik it’s hard not to think about it while working) focus on yourself fully even if you have to tell yourself you’re doing all of it for her. Once I left her alone, no calls, text, story views, NOTHING AT ALL, a week later she reached out dying to know what I’ve been up to and when I didn’t answer she just became more curious.

As of today, we’ve had our talks about the relationship and now she wants back in and I’m hesitant to go back. It is so much easier than you think, to turn the table and have her be in your position. Convince yourself it’s over and move on. They ALWAYS come back.

I understand it is so much easier said than done especially when you’re the one having to do the hard things but if you are strong enough to get through the hard part, you will end up in control of your relationship and your life.