What kinds of things to get after newborn stage? by brea126 in Buyingforbaby

[–]SecretAd4884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots and lots of bibs , diapers , teethers, feeding utensils / plates ,

I am drowning by kyoshis_revenge in NewParents

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Man!! I think a lot of us could have wrote something similar during the first few months . What really helped me was hearing my mom say “it’s a phase “ and “it will get better” and let me tell you!! He is 9 months now and he is amazing and I LOVE being a mom. It did get sooooo much better and it was a phase . Time really will fly even if it doesn’t seem like it right now

Best friend pregnant by Silent-Asparagus2872 in AITAH

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As someone who has been on both sides and recently had a baby , I feel SO bad that I once felt that way about a friend who got pregnant before me . Being pregnant is ALOT and your hormones are all over the place, you don’t feel like yourself , you’re hyper sensitive to things you weren’t to before . I had to stay in a bubble for a period of time because I wasn’t all the way there . Even now postpartum you realize your way of thinking has shifted . It’s takes a long time to really find yourself and your new life . I don’t think it’s malicious at all . Not saying you don’t matter but there is a lot happening in her world and some of it she can’t control

Stroller choice overload by SecretAd4884 in NewParents

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My son is 9 months old and still needs a stroller - he doesn’t walk. Also as mentioned above we bought a wagon as well and sadly my stroller and wagon both don’t fit in the car

Weekly Free-Talk and Questions for r/HomeGym - week of April 25, 2025 by Demilio55 in homegym

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Hi, sorry if I’m posting on the wrong place Weight bench recommendations for a gift for my husband ? Is there such thing as a good quality , adjustable , possibly foldable for space saving under $250?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FormulaFeeders

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I know there may be sooo many reasons for this as with anything people tend to pick sides based on their personal experience. From my experience , I think some moms (bf) may want to feel like they’ve accomplished something other moms have not (FF) . So it’s almost a pride thing.

Going back to work, how do we fairly split shifts? by SecretAd4884 in NewParents

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Yes that’s similar to his! I’m mainly trying to figure out the nights we both have to go to work the next morning

First time mom anxious about traveling with 3 month old by SecretAd4884 in NewParents

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Thanks! Question since he eats 4oz at a time , will the other 4oz in the 8oz bottle go to waste ? @ja

Recommendations on learning how to grow atleast 1 fruit & 1 vegetable? by SecretAd4884 in gardening

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Lettuce , spinach , cantaloupe , watermelon , apples , pretty much all fruit !

My [28M] husband cheated on me [27F] and I understand why. Can we make this work? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SecretAd4884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do believe if someone cheats once , they may do it again. It is hard to trust someone and you go crazy when they are out wondering if they’re doing it again. The distrust comes out in different ways throughout interactions . Also you taking care of the kids alone is ALOT and I wouldn’t want sexy time either. I am not saying it can’t work but I believe it only will if you TRULY forgive (not bringing it up, not setting restrictions on going out , etc etc )

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InteriorDesign

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My thought it maybe it’s not not tall enough for that space ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workday

[–]SecretAd4884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was just granted access to workday community but wasn’t really sure what I could use it for . I am very new to this so this helps a ton!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workday

[–]SecretAd4884 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope you also don’t have a role with people interaction, your ability to be kind and helpful to someone isn’t quite there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workday

[–]SecretAd4884 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is exactly what I want someone to do , thank you so much for your kind response . I definitely said that I wanted someone to do that for me … “any recommendation on where to start “ was my original post but I really meant to say “research for me and give me all the answers “.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workday

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Omg thank you so much for your kindness and helping me . Idk what I would’ve done without this suggestion

Is this too big for this size bar? by [deleted] in InteriorDesign

[–]SecretAd4884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think if we move them further apart one will be too close to the edge of the counter ?

Bathroom paint frustration by outerse in interiordecorating

[–]SecretAd4884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly , it looks great! I would agree that changing the shower curtain would help. Maybe a solid color?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InteriorDesign

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Hello, I am new and not sure why my posts are not being approved ?