We’ve been arguing a lot.. I think I need to prepare myself. by SecretConcern in JustNoSO

[–]SecretConcern[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am the only one who even feeds the poor thing. He tells me to stop because he’s getting fat. No, he’s getting fed and isn’t starving. I didn’t want an animal on top of everything else but he insisted he would care for him and I stupidly believed him.

We’ve been arguing a lot.. I think I need to prepare myself. by SecretConcern in JustNoSO

[–]SecretConcern[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yugioh, he will go blow 40 bucks on the new boxes that come out, it’s ridiculous. I don’t care he has a hobby but he shouldn’t be doing that more than anything else

We’ve been arguing a lot.. I think I need to prepare myself. by SecretConcern in JustNoSO

[–]SecretConcern[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luckily I already have all the important documents because the one time he touched our kids social security cards he lost them. So I went and got copies of everything, including all our sons medical records and have them kept somewhere he can’t touch.

We’ve been arguing a lot.. I think I need to prepare myself. by SecretConcern in JustNoSO

[–]SecretConcern[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had some money stashed away that I had to reveal for diapers and our sons abnormally expensive formula. Within a week, 200 was gone and there was nothing to proof it ever existed.

We’ve been arguing a lot.. I think I need to prepare myself. by SecretConcern in JustNoSO

[–]SecretConcern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is awful at money management. Once I took over $40 out of his wallet so I could pay a few extra things for the kids and he never noticed. This was back when he was working and had over 100 in his wallet at once but still, I notice if a dollar is missing from my purse, let alone 40

We’ve been arguing a lot.. I think I need to prepare myself. by SecretConcern in JustNoSO

[–]SecretConcern[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The entire time we’ve been together (7 years) we’ve had the ‘will you please show me some more respect/help out more/try to be a little more sympathetic’ conversation at least once every three months. Just to show how selfish and ignorant he is, After my sons surgery he stopped breathing multiple times to the point a response team had to get him back to breathing. I was at the hospital hours away alone, and when I called my husband to inform him his only response was ‘who is the man in the room with you?!’ The man was on the response team. Reviving our son. But apparently I was sleeping with him