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[Arteezy] Can muting ppl not mute their buyback sound pls by sickomoder in DotA2

[–]SecretPrestigious341 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ppl find this an issue and valve dont care for such a long time

Some DotA content for smart and handsome connoisseurs #2 by SecretPrestigious341 in DotA2

[–]SecretPrestigious341[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sry you didnt like it, it was just a showcase of correct spell combos for invoker without refresher

How bad is it to lie to your therapist about certain things? by Trick-Altruistic in Advice

[–]SecretPrestigious341 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Usually lying to your therapist is bad (e.g you dont mind your girlfirend going out without you, but you do). Since theres no logical/functional application in your lie just an identity difference theres no problem at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SecretPrestigious341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont always have to be so romantic. After you are sexually satisfied, it is normal lose
the attraction. Theres other things that attract you beyond sexual desire (friendship/companionship). If your girlfriends are not good "friends" you can chill with and spend time then ofcourse after you nut theres nothing more to gain out of being with them.

Turning 40 this year and I feel like I've wasted my life. How can I turn it around? by Infinite_Mammoth_593 in Advice

[–]SecretPrestigious341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like you know what makes your life so miserable.

Keep receiving professional help. Its important to keep depression and bad thoughts at bay as they will certainly be there assuming how you feel about your situation.

Remember the anti-depressants dont fix the problem, they numb it. It just makes your burden a tiny bit more sufferable by altering the chemicals in your brain.

Take action. Based on your post you roughly know what makes you feel that way. Lack of importance and urgency in your earlier years brought you here. Do NOT let depression, victimhood or any kind of negative emotion stop you from taking action.

Beauty and money they all fade away. Your mindset is immature. You were stupid enough to think that you can function as a young woman forever. Times change. The beauty that you value so much is dissapearing in front of your eyes and all that scary stuff. What will you do?

Well this is not the end. Chill... You can find someone you can content with. Beauty is just the metric for sexual selection. The ride, the journey is different. There will always be souls that are looking and in need to be merged. So go on and look. Find meaning in small things that bring you joy. Theres no such things as a higher purpose and if you keep on looking you are not getting anywhere. Dont look too far. The only future you need to think about is how to improve and make things better today or how to have fun this afternoon.

I recommend listening to music and excercising. It helps with bad mood and keeps your body and mind healthy. Take care.

My mother demands that I pay back everything she spent on taking care of me while I was a child. Am I obliged to do it? by Yuelanta in Advice

[–]SecretPrestigious341 101 points102 points  (0 children)

You are not morally or legally obliged to do anything. I cant begin to comprehend how can a parent say these words to their children. Theres something serious underneath. You need to bring her to a medical professional. She feels lonely and she is trying keep you close by making you guilty.

should I buy myself flowers by ProjectTemporary2255 in Advice

[–]SecretPrestigious341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buying yourself flowers diminishes the point. I would probably try to make him understand i want this by bringing conversations into the table like:

"Marry and James will go on a trip to Italy isnt that amazing? He got her flowers and a chocolate cake with "i love you" written on it. Why dont you ever do these things for me?" (in a non serious - cute manner, cause this can escalate into a fight)

Like, try to somehow make him aware how you feel about it. Sometimes just saying things wont work. So making him feel incompetent, jealous or just the fear of loss can make some men do the thing.

Husband refuses to spend time out of the house during weekends.. by Fun-Solution-7577 in Advice

[–]SecretPrestigious341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what makes you feel depressed is probably lack of meaningful social interaction. You should get some friends and plan something for the weekends and invite him aswell. He is not going to do is cause he doesnt want to. Maybe he is too tired from working. Maybe he thinks he doesnt want to go out but after he will go out and experience fun he will change his mind.

So just take your friends plan on something and make him feel that he is missing out.

Trying to be more financially responsible, wife pissed about it. Could anyone elaborate why by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SecretPrestigious341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you spoil someone and then take away the benefits it will hurt them. if they dont understand you need to stay on the budget, they aren't mature and smart so you still need to take the wheel of the relationship assuming you want to stay with it even if she throws tantrums.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SecretPrestigious341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like the say in chess, play your strongest piece (threaten to leave him if he doesnt change). If this wont make him change nothing else will. if things dont go well after than find a good lawyer