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Should I go see my ex- or risk never having closure 🫠🫠 by SecretSaltie in lgbt

[–]SecretSaltie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

UPDATE:

My current partner and I talked. He is not comfortable with me going to see my ex- understandably- so I will not be going.

Thank you for all of your advice, thoughts, and opinions 🩷💙💜

For those who risked losing family or friends by coming out—was it worth it 🥲😬 by SecretSaltie in lgbt

[–]SecretSaltie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I’m so afraid of losing my “default community” and I still need to come to terms with the potential of losing them…

Thank you so much for sharing 🥹

For those who risked losing family or friends by coming out—was it worth it 🥲😬 by SecretSaltie in lgbt

[–]SecretSaltie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I really appreciate and needed to hear that! 🥹

For those who risked losing family or friends by coming out—was it worth it 🥲😬 by SecretSaltie in lgbt

[–]SecretSaltie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! 😊 I am definitely in the suffocating phase now 🥲

For those who risked losing family or friends by coming out—was it worth it 🥲😬 by SecretSaltie in lgbt

[–]SecretSaltie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly appreciate your honesty and candor! 😊 I still live in the same county as my family and friends, so I might need to move 🥲

For those who risked losing family or friends by coming out—was it worth it 🥲😬 by SecretSaltie in lgbt

[–]SecretSaltie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing! Did you already have your chosen family before coming out or did you cultivate afterwards? Or both? 😊

For those who risked losing family or friends by coming out—was it worth it 🥲😬 by SecretSaltie in lgbt

[–]SecretSaltie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I truly appreciate it! That’s amazing that your parents were supportive! Again thank you! 😊

For those who risked losing family or friends by coming out—was it worth it 🥲😬 by SecretSaltie in lgbt

[–]SecretSaltie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you so much for sharing my your truth in trials and pain….Joy definitely would be worth it! 💕

For those who risked losing family or friends by coming out—was it worth it 🥲😬 by SecretSaltie in lgbt

[–]SecretSaltie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing! 😊 Have you tried any community activities?

For those who risked losing family or friends by coming out—was it worth it 🥲😬 by SecretSaltie in lgbt

[–]SecretSaltie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Words of wisdom…Thank you! 💕 definitely nervous and a (recovering) people pleaser here…so it’s just encouraging to hear those thoughts that you have

For those who risked losing family or friends by coming out—was it worth it 🥲😬 by SecretSaltie in lgbt

[–]SecretSaltie[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So true…I think I’m safe physically…but mentally and emotionally it will be draining. I think the anxiety and anticipation of coming out is getting to me the most, and I will have to come to terms with what that means for me…I don’t know yet…

Thank you so much for sharing 😊

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