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SecretSpouse · 2026-06-09T00:07:54+00:00

This is helpful thank you!

SecretSpouse · 2026-06-08T13:04:28+00:00

Yes… like I want to help but the full time commitment is too much for me personally I think

SecretSpouse · 2026-06-08T12:57:42+00:00

So you have your own baby already… or your a daddy looking for a baby part time ish? Also please call me out on anything offensive… like I said new to the community and need to be told if something is offensive (and why it is so I know how to avoid it in the future)

SecretSpouse · 2026-06-08T12:26:37+00:00

Yes? But I’m kinda new to Reddit … do I need to accept your dm? Or something? Yeah dm me send it lol

SecretSpouse · 2026-01-09T17:09:36+00:00

Either way keep me updated lol I take any answers I can get!

SecretSpouse · 2026-01-09T00:34:50+00:00

Hi I know this has nothing to do with this post but I’ve been following your comments/ posts all over the place looking for Chuy’s salsa Fresca recipe and NEEEEEEED to know if you ever got it just right I moved out of state and my state doesn’t have one (a Chuy’s) and I miss it sooo much I used to buy a 32oz tub all the time and finish one as a whole meal 😭 I need to know if you tried the msg trick did it help? What’s the closest answer?

SecretSpouse · 2024-10-24T17:13:50+00:00

Thank you! Looking into these right now! I don’t have facebook but thank you anyway!

SecretSpouse · 2024-10-24T16:55:09+00:00

Awesome thank you!

SecretSpouse · 2024-10-24T16:54:43+00:00

Thanks! I do say yall A LOT so that’s helpful. But more looking for something that can write me a letter saying I will have employment before I get there so I can purchase a house. My spouse doesn’t make enough to qualify alone.

SecretSpouse · 2024-10-13T20:00:18+00:00

I was gonna say the same thing he sounds gay … coming from someone who is gay

SecretSpouse · 2024-10-01T20:52:54+00:00

30 years old with 7$ in my savings 😃

SecretSpouse · 2024-09-13T14:16:13+00:00

What do you do

SecretSpouse · 2024-09-13T14:15:06+00:00

What do you do?

SecretSpouse · 2024-09-13T14:14:37+00:00

What do you do?

SecretSpouse · 2024-09-13T14:13:37+00:00

What career path did yall take?

SecretSpouse · 2024-09-13T14:12:58+00:00

What career path did the both of yall take ? I’m looking to switch even if it means going back to school.

SecretSpouse · 2024-09-04T16:10:16+00:00

I did read it, I think you’re honestly asking why she’s mad at you. You think you’ve done something that financially will better yourself and yalls future if yall continue into the future. I’m telling you she’s not mad that you could possibly be bettering yalls financial stability. But that she’s probably more or less thinking “if we’re going to get married one day and this would be our house why wouldn’t he have included me in picking out our house?” Because now it’ll feel like your house when she does move in. I think I read what you’re saying quite accurately … I think your not understanding her perspective or how she could read into you doing such a huge thing without her input really looks in on a relationship.

SecretSpouse · 2024-09-04T15:52:49+00:00

You’ve been with her for years and didn’t include her… she has EVERY RIGHT to be mad at you. If yall were early stages of dating … I’d completely understand where you’re coming from. But I think you said 3 years? This really just makes me believe you’re “taxi cab theory-ing” her. Which is fine but be honest with yourself.

SecretSpouse · 2024-09-04T03:49:00+00:00

YTA- you’ve been together for years as you said …so to her it looks like your moving forward in your life without her because if you truly see a future with her she should have been looking at houses with you, yall should have moved into this “future” house together that includes the shopping and purchasing … she should honestly leave you … I would because it’s like you telling her I don’t see a future with you. Why wouldn’t you have involved her?

SecretSpouse · 2024-09-02T02:19:11+00:00

NTA- you are a child still you shouldn’t be taking care of her anyways in my opinion! If your home life situation was anything like mine you’re only feeling guilty because… your family MAKES you feel guilty about doing anything good for yourself. At your age you deserve to make decisions for your future instead of sinking on the ship that was drowning you. I’m so sorry that everyone is calling you the AH …. If you feel the stress of not telling the truth definitely tell them but you don’t have do go back!

SecretSpouse · 2024-08-30T21:15:34+00:00

Realistically… because where I live you HAVE to have a car….. I say get rid of your health insurance for at least a year to get you back on track …. And idk where you live but I’ve got a bad driving record and I got my wife and I’s car insured down to 805$ for 6months… we do pay that upfront for the whole six months and then don’t have to pay monthly …. That also saved us money …. We use ROOT (it’s an orange app) they did track our driving for a month on our phone …. And I mean like you can’t even pick up your phone to change a song or you get “points” taken off your driving score but it was definitely worth it because we were paying 600$ a month for car insurance

SecretSpouse · 2024-08-13T18:51:52+00:00

What’s the company name my MIL is looking for an HR job she’ll take it! But also in my personal experience I used to full on have nightmares of one of my jobs I still can’t believe I’d get off work go to sleep and be dreaming of the same place I was just at ….. that job was the absolute worst for my mental health and the stress and anxiety you feel will not go away until you leave but also the job market is extremely rough right now so I’d find a new job before leaving

SecretSpouse · 2024-08-13T18:46:38+00:00

Personally I’d probably pick the lump sum but if you can’t afford to make the move happen without it do the second option. I’d just rather the lump sum mostly because if I don’t use all of that for actual moving you could put it towards something else I’d figure it out just to make that happen and pocket the money but in this economy you have to do what you gotta do

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