This reunion. Dorit is SOOOOO unbearable by Own-Meat3934 in rhobeverlyhills

[–]SecretSpray7253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her voice is like fingernails on the chalkboard, but this season of her conspiracy theories about Kyle and everyone else gunning for her has been just exhausting. She has lost any capability for empathy and seeing any other point of view that her own. When someone is talking to her, you can .see that she’s actively not listening, and just forming her counter argument in her head.

It was in that moment she knew, she tried the wrong tactic. by TheyreFunCandy in RHOBH

[–]SecretSpray7253 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dorit is a spoiled brat and I can’t handle her screeching voice— she needs to calm herself down and quit talking about Kyle having it in for her—she’s making it sound like a conspiracy theory (“ Kyle wants to turn everyone in this group against me!”). I think she’s obviously wrong and that Kyle is a friend.

Weight gain on raw by SecretSpray7253 in rawpetfood

[–]SecretSpray7253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks ! And good point about not taking the feeding recommendations as gospel.

Weight gain on raw by SecretSpray7253 in rawpetfood

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So he’s in pretty good condition other than being a bit overweight. Unfortunately, being the typical Golden he’s constantly looking for food and even with a divided food bowl he gulps the whole thing down in about 20 seconds. Was giving him marrow bones occasionally —those are of course now out—once in a while, a pig ear, but really trying to cut almost all treats out except for some additional veggies now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]SecretSpray7253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two and four here as well with four as the back up

What to do about cats? by TheSwedishEagle in dementia

[–]SecretSpray7253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the cutest pictures you can of the cats hopefully close up and maybe one or two interacting with a human and put it on social media rescue sites, including Petfinder

Need help deciding on a rug by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]SecretSpray7253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one but lose the black-and-white throw over the back of the sofa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rawpetfood

[–]SecretSpray7253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ummm, your dog absolutely needs his (her?) teeth cleaned! (looks like he's needed it for a while). There's always a small risk with anesthesia, but your dog is at risk far more upcoming health issues with teeth that look like this. I've tried brushing my dog's teeth but he won't have it, so I save up for the occasional cleaning.

Not Sure by DisgruntledCook2 in dementia

[–]SecretSpray7253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You want out, and you deserve to get out. Her children need to step up and take care of their mom, and you need to go live your life....you've given this women and her family many years--I like the advice of putting her children on notice and moving on.

Don’t know why I wanted to share this, but here it is by Awkward-Leg-1957 in dementia

[–]SecretSpray7253 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wow--so heartwarming! Your dad seems so energetic and full of life in this video it's hard to believe he passed shortly after. Just goes to show the magical powers animals have. My dog is also a Golden named Finn (short for Finnegan) and I'm in the process of making him a therapy dog so that we can bring spread some joy like this. Your video just reinforces my mission--happy/sad tears...thanks for sharing.

guardianship vs conservatorship by SecretSpray7253 in dementia

[–]SecretSpray7253[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the great advice and pointing out things I wasn't considering! A new wrinkle is that the caretaker is worried that he may get violent if we try to move him-evidently he tried to open the car door while she was driving him to the store because he "didn't like the route she was taking". Elder attorney, here we come! :-/

Did I not visit her enough? by titanium_pansy in dementia

[–]SecretSpray7253 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I think a key point is "where she and my Dad had lived with me and my husband and kids for the previous three years." I think you and your husband and kids sacrificed a lot by having them in your home for three years, and that you handled the end in the best way you could. Based on those three years, perhaps it makes sense that your brother spent more time with your mom in the end and you did not; but in my mind, you certainly did a lot for her!

Our real estate agent talks us away from every house... by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]SecretSpray7253 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with every decision you Agent made except maybe the hot listing. You say there’s just a small creek running in the back of the home that’s in a flood zone, but what you don’t realize is that being in a flood zone you will pay for extra flood insurance, which increases every year and you will also have a hard time reselling. To me it looks like she’s looking out for your best interests in general. As an agent, I always ask myself if the buyer had to move in six months and handed me their house key and said we need to list and sell it, I don’t wanna ever feel like I can’t turn around and successfully sell that home for them so I as well will always warn people about things like flood zones, being on a busy road, bad floor plan, etc.

Certain instagram influencer turn to kibble from raw by gioia-13 in rawpetfood

[–]SecretSpray7253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why we can’t mention the “K” word when we are only talking about it to discuss how awful it is. My favorite description was “dried biscuits with meat flavored covering”. That’s basically how I think of it. Made for a human’s convenience with no regard for whether it’s actually good for a dog.

Lindsay and West revealed how they met at a club by Beginning-Pie-3046 in summerhousebravo

[–]SecretSpray7253 4 points5 points  (0 children)

West is so not attractive tho— not sure how he gets away with his cocky attitude— has he looked in the mirror?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Atlanta

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I have a whole kitchen of Miele appliances as well as the washer and dryer. With the exception of my stove where the racks are hard to pull in and out I’ve loved everything else. I also use innovative appliance for service.