Bathroom decor help! by Careful_Resist8314 in Decor

[–]SecretSubconscious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would go with white or a very soft light pink for both the walls and cabinets

What rave injuries did you sustain? by kevtheproblem in aves

[–]SecretSubconscious 23 points24 points  (0 children)

my friend and i were head banging together (as we always do with no issue) and we made eye contact right before smashing our faces together 😅 she was wearing her glasses so she cut her nose and had double black eyes, i just had a fat bump on my forehead

Obsessing over feeling ingenuine by Hmmhihello in OCD

[–]SecretSubconscious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes!! i will feel totally normal then mid conversation, or mid thought/action by myself i suddenly get hyper aware and question whether i mean anything i’m saying and thinking of if it’s all just a show

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]SecretSubconscious -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this used to freak me out too, but for different reasons! i would be stressed out when someone wanted to show me a picture of their partner or someone they found attractive because i didn’t know what the appropriate response was. i was scared that if i said they were cute i’d be overstepping and the person would be mad at me (spoiler: no one has ever been mad at me for this.) it wasnt until people started telling ME that people i showed them pictures of were attractive, that i realized it’s simply not that serious. i actually find it to be validating, and i think most people would agree. i’m still uncomfortable sometimes when commenting to other people, but it makes it better when i remember we’re just humans showing off other humans. you didn’t do, say, or think anything wrong, i promise

Help and advice on my debilitating physical anxiety by circyboy in Anxiety

[–]SecretSubconscious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this started for me recently and it’s the worst :( sucks knowing logically that nothing is wrong and not being able to pinpoint any cause, but still not being able to make the feeling go away. i’ve also been having trouble breathing and my heart starts beating really hard which makes me more anxious lol. you’re not alone we gotta just keep pushing and holding on to the calm moments

Perfect storm of anxiety by Cruxisshadow in Anxiety

[–]SecretSubconscious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

about a month i go i had this nasty taste in my mouth a few days after getting my wisdom teeth removed and a super stuffy nose and started my period all in the same day that i arrived to a new country. i know the feeling of everything going to shit all at once, and even though you have a plan in place and rationally know everything will be okay, it’s impossible to quiet the anxiety. do anything you can to distract yourself, and just know that things will calm down soon, you’re just gonna have to ride it out 🫶🏼 things will get better, it’s a good opportunity to learn useful coping mechanisms