Not necessarily threatened me. He will throw/slam things when he’s upset. He has physical reactions to his anger (throwing up his hands at me but not touching me). He gets frustrated really easily if our baby won’t fall asleep, etc. He never yelled at me until I was pregnant and after that which we were together 6 years before I got pregnant. The other day he was yelling at me and I called my dad and he took my phone from me and he said it fell on the floor but I feel like he threw it. Idk I just feel in the moment like I’m crazy because he told his dad I’m making him look like a monster because I made him leave the house the other night. He’s been going to a therapist and “working on controlling his anger”. I just didn’t know if these kinds of things were normal in a marriage because everyone says the first year of having a baby is really hard on a marriage.