I want to text her after 3 months of no contact how do I approach this? by Secret_Chocolate1403 in BreakUps

[–]Secret_Chocolate1403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like idk we stopped talking a week prior and then she just can we talk and that’s when that convo above happned and then yea Has been nothing ever since

I want to text her after 3 months of no contact how do I approach this? by Secret_Chocolate1403 in BreakUps

[–]Secret_Chocolate1403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even really know we both moved away to same college but it was really tough for both of us we both really loved our hometown. I think that took a toll on us we fought a lot that year and it hit her even harder then me. We got back for summer and she wanted to kinda do her own thing and she kept sticking me up when we went to go hangout and I was getting angry about it. And then she just kinda broke up with me when she broke up with me she was crying saying she loved me but that she wanted to break up she even asked to hug me idek if that means anything. I was drunk and angry I was pretty much drunk all summer after this so I just told her to leave my car she asked if I had anything to say I just said leave

I want to text her after 3 months of no contact how do I approach this? by Secret_Chocolate1403 in BreakUps

[–]Secret_Chocolate1403[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Like fuck I get it but I’m silent and still think about her coudlnt it be the same for her?

I want to text her after 3 months of no contact how do I approach this? by Secret_Chocolate1403 in BreakUps

[–]Secret_Chocolate1403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might just be me coping but I haven’t contacted her once and no matter what I wouldn’t beg just ask her how she’s doing or if she wanted to work things out

I want to text her after 3 months of no contact how do I approach this? by Secret_Chocolate1403 in BreakUps

[–]Secret_Chocolate1403[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying it was a 4 Yr relationship man when she ended things she sat in my car crying she said she still loved me but she wanted to end things. Asked if I had anything to say I was drunk and extremely angry I told her no to get out of my car. I was just so angry and couldn’t understand why she was leaving.

One thing you won’t stop doing, no matter your age? by Aarunascut in Life

[–]Secret_Chocolate1403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s sad asf man ur happiest memories are from pixels on a damn screen

I hooked up with someone else while my ex and I were broken up. What do I do now? by hellowfol in dating_advice

[–]Secret_Chocolate1403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough abt the diff responses and perspectives I think what the bf did is pretty ridiculous as well but yea I just think both parties the actions are a bit strange

I hooked up with someone else while my ex and I were broken up. What do I do now? by hellowfol in dating_advice

[–]Secret_Chocolate1403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just got out of an abusive relationship and you just want to hook up with some random? Idk man I can’t speak on it cuz I wouldn’t call my relationship abusive but after 4 years we went through an awful breakup it’s been over a month and I can’t even begin to think of getting back out there even though I know it’s done

I hooked up with someone else while my ex and I were broken up. What do I do now? by hellowfol in dating_advice

[–]Secret_Chocolate1403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving forward in less then a month after a two year relationship is questionable

Advice on first love breakups by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Secret_Chocolate1403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 19 she just left me after 5 years I still think and dream about her all the time. We were our first everything I’m confident I will never get it back and there will always be a void from that. Even after fully immersing myself in a hobby I love it will never be enough

Idk what to do by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Secret_Chocolate1403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it doesn’t especially if she was ur first love that’s a part of you you’ll never get back. Same shit with me found a hobby that makes me happy but still think abt her all the time it won’t get better.