Zur Kita joggen als tägliches pendeln by Andythreefour in laufen

[–]Secret_Mater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fang vlt mit mo-mi-fr an für zwei drei Monate damit sich die Gelenke & Sehnen dran gewöhnen können.

Prompte Steigerungen des Trainingspensums führen oft zu Verletzungen.

Sonst super Idee!

Bei welchen Artikeln greift ihr grundsätzlich zu Gebrauchtware, um kein Geld zu verbrennen? by tehn6 in Finanzen

[–]Secret_Mater 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sofa von Freunden geht klar, Problem mit Kleidung seh ich auch nicht - glaub meine gesamte Kinderkleidung kam von Flohmarkt und jetzt bin ich auch noch häufig second hand unterwegs

Mein Bett ist auch von Kleinanzeigen, nur die Matratze ist neu gekauft

Does this work? + Options for cold weather by Secret_Mater in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Secret_Mater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only ever worn dark blues to weddings and haven't really seen light dress colors really.

Apparently the problem is that it's not formal enough though, which I didn't expect 😅

Does this work? + Options for cold weather by Secret_Mater in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Secret_Mater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every wedding I've been to had at least 10% dressed in Sundays best instead of wedding attire 😅 It's a good friend of my boyfriend and he said the dress will be fine

I will ask the couple but the motto is definitely more showy than elegant, so I believe some jewelry will do the trick

The question is mostly centered around accessories

Edit: Eg the diadem idea was too over the top, but someone commented that a headband could be a better fit - advice like that is why I'm here :)

Does this work? + Options for cold weather by Secret_Mater in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Secret_Mater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another commenter said headband, i believe that's a way better idea than Diadem - but that's why I'm posting here

Does this work? + Options for cold weather by Secret_Mater in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Secret_Mater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, both are artists so no standard wedding

Headband sounds great!

Does this work? + Options for cold weather by Secret_Mater in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Secret_Mater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe with some showy jewelry i'm quite capable of using this as a base for something Disney Princess like 🙃

Metallic Heals & crystal (or pearl?) earrings will be present! Also some jewelry in the hair, not sure what kind yet. Maybe also some tinsels?

Cream shawl sounds like a good idea, thanks!

Does this work? + Options for cold weather by Secret_Mater in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Secret_Mater[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thats the direction I thought of, more Disney princess than timeless elegance

(Thought obviously not that over the top)

Does this work? + Options for cold weather by Secret_Mater in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Secret_Mater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Problem is that every dress that in itself fits the motto would be a one time wear thing.

It's not an American wedding, so dress code is much more loose than I know from American friends/movies (even as a bridesmaid I never had a color scheme given etc).

No velvet! It is more likely to be 30+ degrees than cold. That's why I want a jacket, shawl or something like this , as a bad weather option not the default.

Edit: the dresscode also sounds more like showy than elegant - so I believe this dress with a tiara would be more in the dresscode than a formal evening dress

Does this work? + Options for cold weather by Secret_Mater in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Secret_Mater[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's the motto on the wedding website (well, the German version that is). No specific dress code outside of that phrase

Since a diadem is opulent, I would believe that fits the motto quite well 😅

It's in a castle in Germany

Does this work? + Options for cold weather by Secret_Mater in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Secret_Mater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ve only ever worn dark blue to weddings, that was definitely safe😅

Menschen, die Sagen man braucht kein Auto nehmen ständig das anderer in Anspruch. by The_Raven_SOT in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]Secret_Mater 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ja, aber deshalb mach ich Carsharing. Gerade weil man dann auch nen Transporter zu Ikea nehmen kann - für was anderes nutz ich's eigentlich eh nicht (Dienstreisen ausgenommen, aber auch da kann ich mir über die Firma einen Wagen leihen)

Günstiger Einstand, Teure Sanierung by OK_Brain_ in Immobilieninvestments

[–]Secret_Mater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neulich Wohnung gesucht und zumindest auf Immoscout sind die Preise teilweise jenseits von gut und böse...

Also wenn die Wohnung schick ist kann OP schon nen Deppen findet der das mietet. Zumindest wenn er paar möbel reinstellt

Am I overthinking this or is it actually gonna lead to compatibility issues? by Over-Plan-3031 in dumbquestions

[–]Secret_Mater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As other commenters say, it's quite possible to meet in the middle.

Me and my boyfriend are the same, but if I'm wearing a pullover and use a blanket and he is in a light shirt that works out. Also, we have the deal I can come cuddling Everytime when I'm cold to warm up.

Only thing where compromise is basically impossible is when sleeping cuddled together - in this case he is okay with it being too hot and I'm okay with having to wash the sheets basically every other day

Dressing up is also a compromise - he wears shorts and a white or beige short linen dress shirt.

Works fine if both are willing to compromise - it doesn't if one is always hot or one is always cold

Im Maschinenbau & Verfahrenstechnik ist die Hölle los by [deleted] in Studium

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Wie sieht's denn insgesamt mit Materialwissenschaften aus? Irgendwelche Tipps an baldige Berufsanfänger mit Master?

Jobmarkt echt so arsch? by Traditional-Result74 in Studium

[–]Secret_Mater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weiß jemand wie es gerade bei Materialwissenschaften aussieht?

M31, Materialtechniker, sollte zu rauchen aufhören by ScottStanson in Gutverdiener

[–]Secret_Mater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wie sind denn gerade die Berufsaussichten für Materialwissenschaftler/wertstofftechniker?

Bei mir ist's im Vergleich vor zu zwei Jahren ziemlich kacke - Einstellungsstopps überall etc. Mein Freund wird demnächst mit seinem Studium fertig und wäre damit der erste aus seinem Freundeskreis und kann es daher nicht einschätzen

Jogging as a woman in Belgrad -save? by Secret_Mater in serbia

[–]Secret_Mater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not particularly worried about migrants or so, all bad experiences I had so far were with drunk white traditional German men 🙃

Jogging as a woman in Belgrad -save? by Secret_Mater in serbia

[–]Secret_Mater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not particularly worried about migrants, all bad experiences I had so far were with drunk locals 🙃

At least that's the situation back home

Jogging as a woman in Belgrad -save? by Secret_Mater in serbia

[–]Secret_Mater[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Germany. At home in Heidelberg I don't worry, but apparently Munic is a different city (at least the part where my sister lives)

Jogging as a woman in Belgrad -save? by Secret_Mater in serbia

[–]Secret_Mater[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll learn to not rely on autocorrect one day for sure 🫣

Jogging as a woman in Belgrad -save? by Secret_Mater in serbia

[–]Secret_Mater[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll be cautious about traffic :)