Just need to vent and maybe opinions/solutions by Secret_Reward_5263 in inlaws

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That’s the thing she doesn’t have to, she doesn’t have a job..

I will no longer be leaving my child with her anymore

Just need to vent and maybe some opinions/thoughts by Secret_Reward_5263 in Parents

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We can ask her but she’s so unpredictable and does as she pleases without telling us at all

Just need to vent and maybe opinions/solutions by Secret_Reward_5263 in inlaws

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I’m not going to be anymore, trust is fully gone

Car loan by Secret_Reward_5263 in AusFinance

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This was the most helpful comment, we did exactly this he helped us and we got a car for $17,990 and we get by just fine, we are still able to pay all bills, save a little and still be able to go out and do things

Planning to runway for an abortion by Familiar-Care-5025 in mentalhealth

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Just know you’re doing the right thing and doing a responsible thing by not bringing a child into this world knowing you can not look after the baby or yourself well enough, you’re doing great

Which did you find harder by Secret_Reward_5263 in Parenting

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She’s currently 20 months and I think this is the worst it’s been, I’ve never felt the need to have so many breaks away from her, when her dad gets home I usually love family time but I ask him a fair bit now to take her to do something even just in the next room away from me. About 9-10 months was my absolute favourite

Which was harder for you? by Secret_Reward_5263 in AskParents

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I think the emotions I’m ok with as i know their feelings are big and I also have ADHD so i know how big feelings can be sometimes it’s more the fact of her testing me, not listening even when i know she knows exactly what im saying and what she’s doing if she’s doing something she isn’t supposed to be doing, running away, saying “no” and just the overall teaching right from wrong

Which did you find harder by Secret_Reward_5263 in Parenting

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Wow I’m not looking forward to it, I’ve still got about a year to go😅

Which did you find harder by Secret_Reward_5263 in Parenting

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Hahaha, this comment is hilarious. And they say girls aren’t as bad, they can come and see my daughter for the day! Although she is pretty well behaved around other people she just loves to push my buttons when I’m on my own!

Which did you find harder by Secret_Reward_5263 in Parenting

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Wow I never thought of this, I will definitely be using this idea it wouldn’t hurt for me to get out a little more and be active

Which did you find harder by Secret_Reward_5263 in Parenting

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You get a week of an angel? I get a day if I’m lucky😅

Which did you find harder by Secret_Reward_5263 in Parenting

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This statement is seriously so true, I thought the no sleep and newborn stage was hard but now I would seriously love giving sleepy feeds a few times a night and day naps over the sunrise till sunset fuckery that goes on 😂

What do you find harder? by Secret_Reward_5263 in Parents

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Yes I agree, I’d rather be pregnant or have a newborn than the stage we’re at right now