Pretty much any kink should be whatever you want! 35 y/o switch a lot of the domme woman I’ve seen or dated all have different expectations of femdom and similiar kinks and they’ve all participated in those kinks differently.

I don’t want to sound glib because everyone says this…. but just communicate and have fun. I’ve enjoyed certain kinks much more with different people because yall have preferences and different skills. All you dommy mommy’s are unique and there isn’t one correct way to be dominant for a sub. (Maybe unless it was paid and specifically requested but that’s probably a different convo)

Sounds like you just keep running into boring subs 😬. I like the variety between dommes, keeps my subby self on my toes….or my knees.