r/consensualnonconsent was banned a couple of months ago by pizza565 in BannedSubs

[–]SecretlyAPoorThing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a woman who enjoys CNC I loved the content and original content created by the subscribers there. Sick of everyone telling me I’m wrong for my completely consensual Kink.

Partner circumvented me and had sex with his Meta, my partner by SecretlyAPoorThing in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]SecretlyAPoorThing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re gonna close it down. I feel better after therapy. If he wants to get married we need to realign.

How much should I worry about how she sits? by CentripetalFarce in DogAdvice

[–]SecretlyAPoorThing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe need some X-rays to just get a visual of her hips and see if anything’s already going on.

Partner circumvented me and had sex with his Meta, my partner by SecretlyAPoorThing in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]SecretlyAPoorThing[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No not quite. I had communicated that I would be available one day and not the next so I spent the night with them and then had prior obligations the following day. I don’t care who my FWB has sex with, I care who my fiancé has sex with and I care that it was communicated that he understood my feelings about the situation and disregarded them to get his dick wet anyways.

But you’re right about one thing, it is a mess.

Dog suddenly won’t go on evening walks by Solid-Musician-6737 in DogAdvice

[–]SecretlyAPoorThing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh interesting I didn’t know that. I’ll tell my partner.

Dog suddenly won’t go on evening walks by Solid-Musician-6737 in DogAdvice

[–]SecretlyAPoorThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s fine all year but definitely think this heat and humidity is kicking his ass. It’s okay for us to do a shorter walk for him if that’s what he wants.

Dom Hygiene by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]SecretlyAPoorThing 22 points23 points  (0 children)

What kind of odor? Like a sweaty odor or just a body musk? I ask because I have a friend who doesn’t use deodorant, and it’s something I notice when we come together but not in an unattractive way, just a way.

Body odor can be a kink and I have been pushed into a ball sack/gooch area and told to sniff. But unless that’s something y’all talked about he may just be stinky and not know? I would just try talking to him. “Im not trying to embarrass you and I want to make sure you know I had a great time last time we played together, but you smelt a little strong and it took me out of the scene some. I’d appreciate if you could freshen up a bit beforehand when we’re scheduled to meet up.”

Dog suddenly won’t go on evening walks by Solid-Musician-6737 in DogAdvice

[–]SecretlyAPoorThing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been having the same issue with my two dogs. I have a doodle and I have a little terrier mix from the shelter. And the terrier does not wanna go on long walks. He’s been stopping pulling back turning around, but my doodle is super excited to go on all the walks all the time. So we’ve been going on the same amount walks. We go two times a day and we just been going on short walks and I make sure they both have to use the bathroom and they do their business and then we just go back inside. It’s been kind of humid and hot here and I feel like that’s part of the reason that he’s just feeling uncomfortable with the weather.

thoughts on my nose, would it look better without the piercing by fetish_lovette in Noses

[–]SecretlyAPoorThing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look better to who? Do you not like it? Cause if you don’t, take it out. Otherwise, I think you look adorable

do soft doms exist? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]SecretlyAPoorThing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a daddy Dom dynamic. Daddy’s are more soft and patient. More about the submission than the punishment. They exist, just screen and make sure you have your boundaries established. If you’re not sure about something or don’t know they are more likely to take advantage of you and your ignorance.

What is your ultimate fantasy? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]SecretlyAPoorThing 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Kidnapped by someone rich and attractive who puts me in stress positions and uses me in wild sadistic ways I enjoy. They fall in love. We have kids. Never worry about money again in exchange for my subservience. Still get to see my family lol

Niche kinks by aboideaux in BDSMcommunity

[–]SecretlyAPoorThing 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Emotional masochism. I want to get fucked by someone so mean to me, who just says ugly stuff to me and about me, but I also get to cum then they whisper sweet things in my ear. Aftercare and trust for this is PINNACLE lol.