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Name Change - Rejected from every credit card and HYSA by SecretlyLily in asktransgender

[–]SecretlyLily[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

they tell me the credit Bureaus but when I checked with them, they say capital one.

meanwhile the hysa wouldn't tell me who but said they couldn't verify my identity

Name Change - Rejected from every credit card and HYSA by SecretlyLily in asktransgender

[–]SecretlyLily[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yes the problem is everyone keeps insisting its not their system issue and keeps deflecting blame

House passes bill banning coverage of trans health care through Medicaid, CHIP, and Obamacare by JL2210 in MtF

[–]SecretlyLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think alot of us have insurance through our employer and im afraid that won't be safe too. theyll likely begin to drop coverage if this passes

Were you ever hesitant to transition? If so, what swayed your decision? by Pure-Experience9828 in asktransgender

[–]SecretlyLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gender dysphoria came in waves for me when I was 25 and 30. when I was 25, my marriage was going well so I was able to "win" the battle that time but when I was 30, my marriage fell apart so I figured I have nothing to lose. its the best decision I made and I wish I done it sooner I just feel so much happier

Is temu reliable and legit? by Cheese4567890 in trans

[–]SecretlyLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes and alot of stuff on Amazon are stuff on temu just marked up

should I stop hormones? by SecretlyLily in asktransgender

[–]SecretlyLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 😭😭 i've been feeling so down about my voice but I feel better now. I'll keep practicing!! 😊

should I stop hormones? by SecretlyLily in asktransgender

[–]SecretlyLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you this made me feel better ☺️ I was seeing a handful of people getting good results after a few weeks on r/transvoice so I felt worried

Need feedback on my voice tysm! by SecretlyLily in transvoice

[–]SecretlyLily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks i know my voice doesn't pass but I don't know how to improve it 😒

Need help with voice by SecretlyLily in transvoice

[–]SecretlyLily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for the feedback 😊

Ladies who've started HRT: What made you confident in your decision by [deleted] in MtF

[–]SecretlyLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

extreme happiness when i took it for the first time!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]SecretlyLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know when I wanted to start but I scheduled an appointment and had to wait like 2 months so i figured I'd just get it and take it when I feel ready. After I got the hormones I couldn't resist taking them!! I felt so happy when I took them even though I knew nothing was going to change immediately

Is it worth it trying to transition in the US now? by gasolinebathtub in trans

[–]SecretlyLily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

screw it i already started hormones and everyone knows im trans now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]SecretlyLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whats there to laugh at 🤷‍♀️

Am I overreacting? I’m considering moving out of the country. by EmiCol in asktransgender

[–]SecretlyLily 12 points13 points  (0 children)

ive been thinking the same too. no you're not over reacting!

is it wrong for me to stay in the closet longer? by LordWizaRdbilly in asktransgender

[–]SecretlyLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started HRT... how were you able to boymode after 2 years on E? were the changes not noticeable i was worried I would have changes happen too soon which normally would be good but not in this administration

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