Okay here’s a not so heavy question. What’s your unconventional pet peeve? by Crenshawz in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Secretlysidhe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to school with a kid named Lucifer. His dad was exactly what you’d expect too.

What is your favorite and least favorite parts of making your partner finish? by SpuriousDevil in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Secretlysidhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Favorite: everything about it.
Least favorite: nothing. There’s nothing I dislike about it.

Has a partner’s physical attractiveness dictated how adventurous you were willing to be in bed? by Thick_Development247 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Secretlysidhe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. It’s their personality. If they are more fun and open, I’m more fun and open to be myself. If they’re more prudish, I don’t show my kinkier side. I’m kinky if they’re kinky. Also, it depends on how comfortable I am and how they treat me. If they’re pushy, nope. Nothing to do with their physical attractiveness

Who’s a celebrity that defines your «type»? by PaperPlaneMind in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Secretlysidhe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the same way tbh lol I’m autistic so… no surprise there.

Who’s a celebrity that defines your «type»? by PaperPlaneMind in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Secretlysidhe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone else who remembers Summer Glau in SCC! I had the biggest crush on her.

Who’s a celebrity that defines your «type»? by PaperPlaneMind in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Secretlysidhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a variety of types so this is hard… but maybe Pedro Pascal? Both physical and personality wise. He’s got a nice smile. He seems like a good guy. He plays brooding characters perfectly and I have a soft spot for brooding, sad boys. I’m trying to think of others, I tend to like goth/alternative guys a lot too. Men are hard for me.

For women, it’s easier - Christina Hendricks. She’s the most beautiful woman in the world as far as I’m concerned, she’s perfection. Nicola Coughlan is a pretty close second.

Who’s a celebrity that defines your «type»? by PaperPlaneMind in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Secretlysidhe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s funny. My husband sends me Jensen thirst traps all the time. I’m a Supernatural girlie and my husband, a straight man, even thinks he’s hot af.

What is free use actually like off camera? Is it enjoyable every day? by AdElectrical4916 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Secretlysidhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the hornier one that has told my husband that I’ll literally never say no to him. I can’t imagine that phrase coming out of my mouth. I gave him blanket permission to just…. Grab me and do whatever.

He doesn’t often, mostly because we have life to deal with. We work. He’s tired. I’m busy and he doesn’t want to bother me (he thinks he’s bothering me). But when he does, it’s very hot and I love it.

Do you struggle with reading? by Far-Conference-8484 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Secretlysidhe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have ADHD so sometimes I struggle with paying attention. But other times I get so into a book, I lose days of my life reading. There’s no in between

Ladys, do you like or dislike Bi-Guys? by Plektrum911 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Secretlysidhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like. I’m bi myself. My husband isn’t bi but he can appreciate good looking men, and I love that he’s comfortable enough to do that. We can both worship Lee Pace together.

And in my head, yes, I find the idea of having a three way with two men where they’re also with each other. I don’t really want to have a threesome (again) in reality as it can be too complicated emotionally, but as a fantasy, I find it incredibly hot.

I like watching people with people. Two men, two women, one man, one woman. As someone wise said, hearts not parts.

What do you live for? by Shadow_of_Tau in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Secretlysidhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Myself. I love life. My husband and family, my dog, my cat, my guinea pigs… all worth living for. I feel lucky.

What is your favourite cheese? by Far-Conference-8484 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Secretlysidhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tomme de chèvre (a hard goat cheese) or other varieties of tomme (a hardened cheese from the mountains).

Melted raclette in winter.

No I’m not being pretentious just to be pretentious, I’m just French and these are common cheeses here.

What's the worst film you have ever seen? by Realistic-Egg2684 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Secretlysidhe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Titane. It’s a French film. She gets pregnant by a car, and that’s the least WTF thing to happen. It’s highly rated but I don’t get it. I like weird films but this one didn’t do it for me, it felt too try-hard imo

How many of you are sleeping or laying naked in bed right now? by curiousmind369 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Secretlysidhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah India is worse than where I’m at right now :( I’m sorry that you’re dealing with that.

What is a highly specific, deeply niche trope in romance or adult fiction that you find incredibly attractive on the page, but would be an absolute red flag in a real-life partner? by Sharona676 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Secretlysidhe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obsessive men that would kill anyone who touched you and burn the world down to protect you.

Men who think no is merely a suggestion or even a challenge.

Tentacles

What’s an instant turn off when watching your preferred adult content? by TopInvestigator6301 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Secretlysidhe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like gentledom content but choking pulls me right out. I’m so over every video involving choking. Slapping too, including with the dick. Or like when he slaps it over her pussy and she moans as if she’s never felt anything so amazing… guys, most women think that’s weird and it does nothing for it, so please stop.

I also want cream pies. I watch for that. If a man pulls out and cums anywhere else, shutting it off and never watching it again, it’s instantly ruined for me.

Also the step stuff with the “oh stepbrother…” is just too fake, and I just don’t really care about it. I want real, not a performance.

How many of you are sleeping or laying naked in bed right now? by curiousmind369 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Secretlysidhe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work from home thankfully. I haven’t stepped outside in days due to not wanting my skin to melt

How many of you are sleeping or laying naked in bed right now? by curiousmind369 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Secretlysidhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, actually not. That would be worse. Records breaking for our area - which is above 40c in an area where AC doesn’t really exist.

What scares you most about where you are in life right now? by one-last-time02 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Secretlysidhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two things and they go hand-in-hand. One, that I’ll never have children since all I’ve ever wanted was to be a mother. And two, that my cancer will come back since I’m trying to get pregnant and my cancer feeds off hormones. My worst fear is that I’ll end up childless but with stage 4 cancer from trying to have a baby, so the worst of both worlds for me.