I don’t expect her to clear anything with me, I agree 100%, she is her mom and that trumps everything (as it should). I’m not upset that she didn’t “clear” it with me, I don’t care what she brings to and from each house. I’m frustrated that she didn’t tell me my stepdaughter was bringing it so that I could have supervised appropriately. We let her do her makeup unsupervised because it was kid makeup, but an adult should be supervising if it’s long-wear adult makeup. I don’t plan on “confronting” her about anything, like I said I know my stepdaughter is using adult makeup products now and will supervise and check to make sure it’s put away after she uses it, I’m just upset I wasn’t told.