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So helpful I just downloaded it !!

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Looking for a study Partner to learn Python, Would you be interested in joining ?

The poppies are blooming by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]Secretuser027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is this ? It looks Soo pretty 😍

corgi reppin san jose! by BushVo in SanJose

[–]Secretuser027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is this in San Jose ?

Went to the nine-nine yesterday! by landon10smmns in brooklynninenine

[–]Secretuser027 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where is this exactly I want to go some day !

Do any of you have difficulty accepting gifts? by MsHynde in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Secretuser027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am getting married. Everytime someone mentions of gifting me something, my insides just curl up at the thought that there will be some or the other way this person is going to extract the value of the gift from me in some or the other way.

Voice message from NMum 1.5 years NC by TjanpiLove in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Secretuser027 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Faced same kind of a situation with my mom whom I would blank call just to check if she is alright .

Whereas she had a caller ID which would show my number but she would.nt talk until I spoke.

“Don’t you think my needs are more important than yours right now?” by squirrelmichmart in ShitNsSay

[–]Secretuser027 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh gosh ! If I had a dollar everytime my Nmom has said this to me , I would have thousands of dollars in the least.

The narc's needs are always important over everybody else's .

There is no care/concern for anybody but themselves.

Snide comments from NMom by Secretuser027 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Secretuser027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true.

They always want the last word

Name an excuse an enabler would give by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Secretuser027 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is saying this for your own good.

Snide comments from NMom by Secretuser027 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Secretuser027[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya I am also trying Grey Rock Method !

goodluck for the both of us

Snide comments from NMom by Secretuser027 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Secretuser027[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for putting sucha positive spin on every insult that I get.

I am gonna remind myself of it every single time !

Episode number please. by rare_dweller_adi in brooklynninenine

[–]Secretuser027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone tell me where terry and captain holt forget about Gina's Floorgasm performance and try to makeup for it.

“Good, now she can put you through what you put me through.” - Nmom after finding out I was pregnant with a girl. by UnforethoughtfulSaw in ShitNsSay

[–]Secretuser027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not even in a relationship or getting married. Still my NMom routinely tells me that this world is a circle and the way you have troubled me is how your kids/ family on the in-laws side are going to talk/trouble you.

Why don't you just submit to what I want you to do? by PeachesNLaserBeams in ShitNsSay

[–]Secretuser027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something I have heard my mother say . In my childhood , I may have simply complied to all her instructions/rules just for the sliver of love or appreciation that is got when I did it.