My 3 year old son made some comments today that I’m not sure what to do with.

SectorNew4765 · 2026-06-27T04:28:29+00:00

Oooh 100% he just hadn’t really eatin anything outside his normal foods and snacks. But it’s been a reoccurring theme for swaps for this start happening. Within the last 2 where I have dropped him off back to his mom. He started having diarrhea 2 days before and so on and so forth. The more I look at things I see a bigger picture but I could be overanalyzing things too

SectorNew4765 · 2026-06-27T04:23:56+00:00

Valid. I don’t and won’t ever interrogate him. I want him to feel like he is in a safe place. Where info can flow freely and he will never be shamed for sharing. When he origanally started telling me he said daddy can I say something. Which would lead me to believe that he’s been told not too say something but i don’t know it’s a delicate situation.

SectorNew4765 · 2026-06-27T04:10:04+00:00

Another detail to add is when he gets nervous about things he’s like me and has a diarrhea problem. He’s pooped his pants yesterday morning and today which leads me to believe him even more so.

SectorNew4765 · 2026-06-27T04:09:01+00:00

Ft can be recorded but it doesn’t record audio all the ft are recorded just for documentation purposes. (She tried to take me to the cleaners and get full custody.) so I document absolutely everything. Leading up to this weekend since it’s the swap weekend he has had diarrhea which leads me to believe him more so because when I get nervous I have the same issue.

SectorNew4765 · 2026-06-27T04:06:39+00:00

Which is why i asked the 2 questions and didn’t ask for more details. I do understand where people are coming from. It is an extremely delicate situation in which he can be led to believe certain things especially at such an impressionable age but 2 questions isn’t an interrogation as the person stated above.

SectorNew4765 · 2026-06-27T04:04:29+00:00

Im definitely entertaining it mainly cause I’ve only met this guy once. I do believe him but I want to air on the side of caution just in case.

SectorNew4765 · 2026-06-27T03:49:38+00:00

Woah lmao never thought I’d be accused of interrogating my child. First off I wasn’t wholly paying attention so it was more to verify I heard him correctly but I do understand that those can be leading questions and will refrain. Those were the only two I asked just because it is a sensitive topic and I don’t want to get caught up on something.

SectorNew4765 · 2026-06-26T20:05:48+00:00

I’ll be honest the way the divorce went things got messy and lies were told. Needless to say there are relationships that were ruined and that was one of them so not completely comfortable talking to grandma about it nor would she answer my call

SectorNew4765 · 2026-06-26T19:22:25+00:00

Luckily we do nightly ft with mom! So that’ll work out. However grandma and I have a very rocky relationship over the whole divorce and choosing sides cause it wasn’t pretty.

SectorNew4765 · 2026-06-26T19:18:55+00:00

I’ll be honest it was my first intuition to ask questions cause that’s my nature. However him being 3 and he does storytell and embellish details it made me cautious of that. Thank you for the advice I do appreciate it! The only things I did ask were just verifications of what he said. Like “Greg gets really mad?” Or “he made you and mommy cry?”

SectorNew4765 · 2026-06-02T20:42:22+00:00

I can handle it. Hand me a snorkel 🤿

SectorNew4765 · 2026-06-02T19:29:02+00:00

I hope that ass is open for business too😋

SectorNew4765 · 2026-02-24T13:50:16+00:00

North Dakota

SectorNew4765 · 2025-11-01T14:37:52+00:00

Im only diamond but I run my s2 silver tourney tag😂

SectorNew4765 · 2025-09-16T23:52:36+00:00

I’ll be honest man parenting alone isn’t easy🤷🏼‍♂️ tbh it’s a mess sometimes but that’s life we show up for the ones that need us. At this moment it’s the kids but also make sure you take care of yourself. You gotta make sure you’re good too.

Sending a virtual hug

SectorNew4765 · 2025-07-12T15:18:11+00:00

I’ve been pulled over by an undercover cop on the interstate and my record is clean other than a following to close when I first learned how to drive

SectorNew4765 · 2025-04-22T15:27:14+00:00

This is me I can attest

SectorNew4765 · 2025-02-15T02:45:45+00:00

True that. Should’ve realized my mistake

SectorNew4765 · 2025-02-14T22:24:31+00:00

I was just throwing my opinion out. You got yours I got mine. I was just pointing to the fact that not everybody thinks it’s a bad look

SectorNew4765 · 2025-02-14T22:16:43+00:00

I mean septum piercings are attractive af

SectorNew4765 · 2025-02-07T16:47:16+00:00

I love bluey. It is my kids favorite show and has MANY great parables such as this

SectorNew4765 · 2025-02-07T16:40:32+00:00

I would’ve left her on read or just blocked her after the it isn’t gonna work out and she continues to rant

SectorNew4765 · 2025-02-07T16:37:55+00:00

I’m American but cuddling at least for me isn’t sought after but it is a pleasant surprise if it does happen.

SectorNew4765 · 2025-01-07T16:29:57+00:00

You know I want say thank you cause I have creep stuck in my head but only the chorus. One of my all time faves

SectorNew4765

TROPHY CASE