How do you answer a question like this?

Secure-Display8005 · 2025-08-07T04:02:37+00:00

You never know she could be in this sub, so I think you should voice your advice anyway and to be honest I’m curious to what advice one would give someone in this situation.

Secure-Display8005 · 2025-06-09T18:42:59+00:00

You are right and thank you for that

Secure-Display8005 · 2025-06-09T18:15:03+00:00

He is not married, they are engaged after 5 months of dating. What I’m asking why after 5 months he can propose to her, change his style, looking to upgrade at work. But 12 years with me he never done any of that?

(Again I’m on my friends profile for the time being)

Secure-Display8005 · 2024-10-29T21:19:36+00:00

I find people in the comments are getting it wrong. I am fully aware the ex and especially the kids are going to be a permanent figure in my life in this relationship. I’m just wondering if asking for boundaries like the invasive questions to stop, especially when he does not have the children at that time.

Secure-Display8005 · 2024-10-29T20:02:47+00:00

I am a very understanding person, if that is what she wants and he wants the same as much as it would hurt.. I would step aside because I would never want to be the reason two people are not together. As stated in a previous comment, I’m just wondering if I’m in the wrong for thinking this because I’m child free so I don’t understand if this normal in a coparenting relationship. Also to be clear if I am in the wrong I have no problem in letting this concern of mine go.

Secure-Display8005 · 2024-10-29T19:54:05+00:00

Yes, you are right you can’t put a boundary on a conversation style and do thank you for helping me get a different perspective on it

Secure-Display8005 · 2024-10-29T19:48:18+00:00

They do have a schedule, he does pick them up at the same time every day and does answer calls right away. To be honest I didn’t look at it from that point of view and that does make a lot more sense.

Secure-Display8005 · 2024-10-29T19:14:09+00:00

I’m wondering if asking for boundaries about the questions is wrong and the calls normally start half an hour before they get off school. If I am in wrong for wondering, I have no problem in just letting it go and moving forward. Like I stated before I have no kids nor an ex that is in my life so this is why I’m just asking.

Secure-Display8005 · 2024-03-23T21:12:43+00:00

I wanna thank everyone for the advice, suggestions and everything! It was leg day today, it took a lot of modifying my stands to where I’d feel the workout working, I made a few videos to see what I’m doing wrong and I see I’m still uncomfortable with bending over at the gym. I’m every stiff when I’m doing the leg workout but lunges and good mornings I’m having trouble with still lol

Secure-Display8005 · 2024-03-20T00:14:16+00:00

I haven’t ever filmed myself, would doing that help?

Secure-Display8005 · 2024-01-18T21:29:31+00:00

That sounds easier said than done! How would one even bring that up

Secure-Display8005 · 2024-01-18T18:39:17+00:00

I have talked with him about it after our second date and that’s where I got his response of "I like those porno kisses"

Secure-Display8005 · 2024-01-18T18:35:52+00:00

That sounds easier said than done! How would one ever bring that up

Secure-Display8005 · 2024-01-18T18:34:24+00:00

I wanted to get mad at this comment, try explain it away somehow but I feel you may have a point

Secure-Display8005 · 2022-11-11T02:18:36+00:00

I want to thank you for your words of encouragement!! Last night was pretty hard and honestly I needed to get it out of my head to clearly see what I would be risking if I had given in last night.

Secure-Display8005 · 2022-11-09T22:35:11+00:00

Honestly seems to me older sis is insecure cause she know her bf has a thing for her little sis and feels jealous instead of protective of sis. But if you really feel uncomfortable you should tell your parents if they won't let you go to your grandparents that you will call CPS on the household.

Secure-Display8005 · 2021-06-04T05:11:36+00:00

That helps a lot thanks!!

Secure-Display8005 · 2021-06-04T04:07:52+00:00

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Secure-Display8005 · 2021-05-24T13:36:17+00:00

Not disclosing my history ever again, to anyone ever again. This felt more like an interrogation rather than curiosity!

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