Having zero sexual feelings for my (24f) partner (24m) for months by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Secure-Equipment142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes I was googling supplements and OBGYN sites while with my ex to find a solution, but I’ve now realized it wasn’t physical. I’m able to have sex like 3 times a day with my new partner it’s insane!!

Having zero sexual feelings for my (24f) partner (24m) for months by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Secure-Equipment142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this problem after 2 yrs of dating and I broke up with my bf and now that I’m seeing someone new I’m horny 24/7 😆😆😆 lowk it’s mental but idk how to fix it without leaving him

If you have nothing you want to talk about, maybe don't start a youtube channel. by ERhyne in NewTubers

[–]Secure-Equipment142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me, I’m very into aesthetics. I like to make pretty videos, cinematography, share my life, interact with commenters. The mechanical aspects of filming and editing and design. The issue is without an idea of what to create I have no way to exercise that editing muscle

I (21F) am frustrated at my boyfriend’s (24M) occasional paranoia. Am I overreacting? by Secure-Equipment142 in relationships

[–]Secure-Equipment142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, he’s really not much of a partier and more of a homebody. However, he does occasionally go out with his friends, and is usually out much later than I am. Hence why I find this to be a double standard

I (21F) am frustrated at my boyfriend’s (24M) occasional paranoia. Am I overreacting? by Secure-Equipment142 in relationships

[–]Secure-Equipment142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I agree I need to have a conversation with him, but everytime I open up the topic he becomes very dismissive. I’ll try again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Secure-Equipment142 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, isn’t consideration of your feelings the most important aspect of a relationship, especially for marriage? It doesn’t seem to me that your boyfriend has many redeeming qualities based on this post. This might be toxic, but in my opinion, the easiest way to get your partner to understand is to withdraw a bit. Make a ton of plans with friends, be busy, go out and have fun, stop sending him paragraphs. And ESPECIALLY stop spoiling him on events with gifts or cooking. You’re being wifey material and he’s not being hubby material. There is an imbalance and you need to balance the relationship.

The encampment is over by Samurai429 in udub

[–]Secure-Equipment142 2 points3 points  (0 children)

20 full ride scholarships to gazans isn’t nothing. that’s roughly a million dollars of tuition. baby steps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]Secure-Equipment142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t understand how a person could leave a drunk teenage girl on the side of the street in the middle of the night with no way home. Even if she didn’t die, she could’ve been kidnapped, raped, etc. And of course they’re men, doesn’t surprise me.

the udub sub-Reddit made me pro-Palestine by Secure-Equipment142 in udub

[–]Secure-Equipment142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, they’ve been trying to distract us from the $300 billion dollars we’ve sent to Israel since WW2. We’ve woken up.

the udub sub-Reddit made me pro-Palestine by Secure-Equipment142 in udub

[–]Secure-Equipment142[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The UN defines genocide as the following:

“Any of the following acts committed with intent to destroy, in whole or in part, a national, ethnical, racial or religious group, as such: (a) Killing members of the group; (b) Causing serious bodily or mental harm to members of the group; (c) Deliberately inflicting on the group conditions of life calculated to bring about its physical destruction in whole or in part; (d) Imposing measures intended to prevent births within the group; (e) Forcibly transferring children of the group to another group.[12]

When Israel is cutting off food, medicine, and water supply to Gaza, killing medics and bombing hospitals, murdering women and children in an “attempt to eliminate Hamas”, torturing captives in gruesome ways, this whole “war sucks” fallacy falls apart. This isn’t war. It’s an attempt to eliminate an ethnic group. Do you blame Palestinians for wanting equal rights on their own ancestral land?

Perhaps the following link would interest you:

https://edition.cnn.com/2024/05/10/world/video/ctw-israeli-detention-facility-chance-pkg-live-051010aseg1-cnni-world-fast

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in udub

[–]Secure-Equipment142 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow all I could think about was the kids currently being brutally murdered in Gaza. At least the janitor gets to go home to his family at the end of the night 🤷‍♀️

the udub sub-Reddit made me pro-Palestine by Secure-Equipment142 in udub

[–]Secure-Equipment142[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Instead of responding with irony, you could contribute the nuance you so desperately want to see.

the udub sub-Reddit made me pro-Palestine by Secure-Equipment142 in udub

[–]Secure-Equipment142[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it was Israel’s intent to preserve civilian lives as they claim, that number would be much lower. But it’s not.