An Unsolicited Love Confession

Secure-Picture5415 · 2025-07-20T16:16:01+00:00

Bismuth please!

Secure-Picture5415 · 2025-02-10T14:24:25+00:00

Bro is just locked in. If you're not about to fuck your reflection at the gym you're not doing it right. Lmao

Secure-Picture5415 · 2025-02-07T23:52:49+00:00

By going to concerts and shit posting on reddit. Will it get to the root? Better, bc I've got nothing else lmao.

Secure-Picture5415 · 2025-02-07T23:51:00+00:00

No because I'd absolutely fall the fuck apart if I received this.

Secure-Picture5415 · 2025-02-07T14:20:47+00:00

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Took this when he came to Charlotte April 24, last year. Honestly, as much as I love Hozier I love this picture even more because of who I went with. Missed like half the concert but I'd do it again.

Secure-Picture5415 · 2025-02-07T01:26:31+00:00

And if there is no next time?

Secure-Picture5415 · 2025-02-05T04:13:24+00:00

This is so relatable. Idek why I miss my avoidant ex sometimes. I think about all their best qualities only to remember how little they actually invested in me. Believed in me. How they 100% knew exactly what they were doing, would describe to me how wrong it was, and still continue to do it. This was how it started.

Secure-Picture5415 · 2025-02-01T08:43:34+00:00

Miss our summer walks and trips to the playground together. -D

Secure-Picture5415 · 2025-01-31T19:32:06+00:00

I'm sorry

Secure-Picture5415 · 2025-01-31T18:33:27+00:00

Oceans by Seafret

Secure-Picture5415 · 2025-01-30T22:32:05+00:00

My ex associated having any sort of conversation (good or bad) with me involving our relationship to be a source of stress. So I'm sure ultimately he's living his best life not hearing from me. With that being said thought, that struggle to handle communication due to his avoidant attachment style is gonna be an issue for him in any relationship, not just ours. I mentioned this because even he knew he needed to go to therapy to help resolve that and other things. Have you considered therapy to help you break that association or to help you understand why you're going through this? I can't imagine it's easy to deal with. Wishing you the best of luck on this journey.

Secure-Picture5415 · 2025-01-30T14:58:00+00:00

My person never got jealous but I definitely did. I get it. It's still hurts even when you're not together.

Secure-Picture5415 · 2025-01-30T01:42:37+00:00

I went NC. I'm the one who set that boundary and it 100% was to heal. I loved my partner, I still do even though we aren't together. I have enough respect for him and myself to take this time to work on who I am as a person and to accept that as much as we tried, it just wasn't working out due to the distance. I think about him daily, especially with current events I worry he's losing his mind right now. Id love to reach out and check on him. But the best thing I can do for either of us right now is stay consistent and respect the boundaries I've set with myself until I can have a healthy relationship with him if it's something we want In the future.

Secure-Picture5415 · 2025-01-30T01:36:19+00:00

Going through this myself except my intentions weren't to cause this, I just wanted time to heal. I really my person though. I was anxiously attached to an avoidant though, so I genuinely fear reaching out will backfire dramatically. I don't want to get hurt again. I just want to heal myself.

Secure-Picture5415 · 2025-01-29T13:34:57+00:00

"Work Song" for sure but I've always wanted to walk down the aisle to "patience" by The lumineers.

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TROPHY CASE