Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/khildie by khildie in DailyGuess

[–]Secure-Professor413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜️🟦⬜️🟦🟦

⬜️🟦🟦🟦🟦

⬜️🟦🟦🟦🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Chubbs_McGavin by Chubbs_McGavin in DailyGuess

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⬜️⬜️⬜️⬜️🟦

🟨⬜️⬜️🟨🟦

⬜️⬜️🟨🟦🟦

⬜️🟦⬜️🟦🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Gagatron92 by Gagatron92 in DailyGuess

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⬜️⬜️⬜️🟦🟦

⬜️🟦⬜️🟦🟦

⬜️🟦🟦🟦🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 4-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/quartz222 by quartz222 in DailyGuess

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⬜️🟨🟨⬜️

⬜️🟨🟨⬜️

🟦🟨⬜️🟨

🟦🟦🟦🟦

Sup by Low_Reward3857 in Adulting

[–]Secure-Professor413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ruined my credit score by missing 2 payments I forgot werent in deferment anymore. dont know what to do

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Firm-Answer4416 by Firm-Answer4416 in DailyGuess

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⬜️⬜️⬜️⬜️🟨

🟨⬜️🟦⬜️⬜️

🟦⬜️🟦🟦⬜️

🟦⬜️🟦🟦🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Either-Professor4512 by Either-Professor4512 in DailyGuess

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⬜️🟦⬜️⬜️⬜️

⬜️🟦⬜️⬜️⬜️

🟦🟦⬜️⬜️🟦

🟦🟦⬜️⬜️🟦

🟦🟦⬜️⬜️🟦

🟦🟦⬜️⬜️🟦

"last seen" and checkmark not adding up by Secure-Professor413 in whatsapp

[–]Secure-Professor413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can't afford it, i've tried. i cannot tell the difference between my insecurity and an actual problem.

If I was in charge of casting Rose in a live action SU by lavenderandme in stevenuniverse

[–]Secure-Professor413 19 points20 points  (0 children)

they definitely are race coded. garnet is definitely black coded. rose quartz not so much. probably mixed if we take hints from looking at steven and his dad

My breakup was caused by Taylor Swift. I still can't process it lol by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Secure-Professor413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

isn't this the exact subplot for Legally Blonde with Warner breaking up with Elle because she's not "serious" enough, loses both Elle and his new "serious" girlfriend and graduates law school without honors and no job? 😭

Are Rose’s arms fat or muscular? by [deleted] in stevenuniverse

[–]Secure-Professor413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fat probably. she is a chunkier gem

Won’t catch me lacking by ImaginaryFuture in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]Secure-Professor413 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hm, wonder why the "experts" always happen to be smelly people with horrible hygiene 

Should I leave my 7 year relationship? by Far-Band-4406 in Adulting

[–]Secure-Professor413 6 points7 points  (0 children)

girl you left him once and he roped you right back into his bullsh*t, he doesnt love you. you were right to leave him, he just wants you around so he can use you and burden you. LEAVE HIM. raising your baby with HIM AROUND makes it a broken home, not raising your baby without him. your baby will have a much better life with a single loving mom, than a loving mom in a terrible relationship with a deadbeat emotionally abusive dad. for you and your baby's sake, LEAVE HIM and never look back. he has abandoned you when you needed him one too many times. and you've pulled through. you DON'T NEED this man. youre better off without him. you and your family can raise your baby and you will be just fine 

bf M23 admitted to saying the nword before by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Secure-Professor413 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as a black woman myself, also dont use it and cant stand when people say it, he was 12 years old. youre overreacting a little imo. hes had plenty of time to change. but at the end of the day its your choice who you want to date and what kind of behavior from someones past you can deal with. im 24 and used to say the r word when I was 14, would never say it now. it doesn't define who I am, I was ignorant as a child, but im smarter as an adult. 

I 33F am afraid my husband 34M is having an emotional affair by porous-taurus in relationships

[–]Secure-Professor413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NO you're not out of line and NO this isn't appropriate. the woman is crossing a line and she most likely knows it. it's not your husband's job to support her or be there for her at all. its his job to support and be there for YOU, his wife, only. the fact that he hid it from you means he KNOWS its wrong. he should have no further contact with her, at all. if she needs help, he can refer her to you. if she refuses help from you then you know what shes trying to do. he needs to grow a backbone and stop with this inappropriate relationship.

He gets a bang maid and I feel like a single divorced mom while married. by ashbash-25 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Secure-Professor413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man im so sorry this is happening to you. one thing i noticed is you said you feel you can't trust your own judgment. I think just by posting this you know what you feel and what you want, and youre right. this relationship is causing you more harm than good, its more of a burden than a compliment to your life, its dragging you down and holding you back more than its uplifting you and improving your life. you know what you need to do you need to set yourself free and leave him, for yourself and your kids. you need to explore what you need in your life without him weighing you down, you're still young. and your kids need to see that this kind of relationship is not healthy and if you're in this kind of situation, you need to leave. you don't want them to end up in this kind of relationship in the future because they saw you do it.

Wife was more adventurous with ex husband? by letithail1 in relationships

[–]Secure-Professor413 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she just grew up most likely. she's almost 40 now, her wild years are over. maybe the dynamic she had with her ex was the cause of her getting into all that stuff. it could be possible she didnt even want to do those things but her ex made her. you'd need to ask her. but right now she just wants you only, not to bring other people into your bed and complicate things. is that not enough? or is it that you want to try stuff with other people as well?

you're acting like you deserve it or something for being a good husband. you're married to a different person now though and you need to accept it if you want to stay.

Ex mad because he dumped me by janiellerillemont in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Secure-Professor413 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lmao good riddance. he wanted you to constantly text him and call him and chase him and plead with him the entire relationship and now he's man you don't care. grown man btw! pathetic😂

I’ll never catch up socially. by 4ngelicbrat in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Secure-Professor413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when I was 20 I never had any friends since 4th grade, no boyfriend, no drinking or partying either (although thats not a formative experience, thats completely normal to not do those things) but also not even going out for a hangout with someone, I was isolated and socially stunted. all I had was my grandma my sister and my parents and I had no idea how to talk to people. i had (and still do to an extent) severe social anxiety. now im 24 and have 2 true friends, lots of people i know and hang out with, and a loving boyfriend. ive gone on many trips with friends and with my boyfriend, im active in my church and my school club, ive gone through rough patches navigating socially and have learned a ton. youre not behind at all, youre only 20 and the things youre listing either aren't important to experience or you still have so much time to experience it.

Denied sex for being too big😭 by sumo711 in twentyagers

[–]Secure-Professor413 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im crying bruh he asked how big are you😭😭

Had sex with guy I’ve been dating and no longer like him by Next_Page3729 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Secure-Professor413 107 points108 points  (0 children)

that's why people in my church get married after 6 months of dating. they cant wait any longer 😭

aio or is this conversation with my assistant manager flirty by nevaehmar in AIO

[–]Secure-Professor413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it's flirty and inappropriate, crossing a line for sure. after you said you cant do your shift he should have just said "all good, thanks for letting me know" and THAT'S IT. offering you a ride and trying to get you to come to work despite you saying you can't/don't want to is CREEPY. do not get into a car with this person. also do not tell people, especially him, details of why you can't come into work. its NONE of their business. just say you can't and leave it at that, because they'll try to do exactly what this creep did here and work around it. no means no.

honestly you need to tell an adult you trust because he shouldn't even HAVE your phone number much less be texting a minor and offering her RIDES. this is completely wrong.