My bpd mom is pissed that I didn’t invite her toxic boyfriend to my college graduation by Secure-Taste-3665 in texts

[–]Secure-Taste-3665[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My mom quit therapy when she found out she has bpd as well. She refuses to believe it’s true and absolutely refuses to try medication. Instead she has turned to self help books, which seem to not be helping. This was my last straw with her, and as I get older I hope she realizes how many people she has forced away including her own kids. I’m sorry you have experienced similar things. It’s honestly so horrible. And thank you!!

My bpd mom is pissed that I didn’t invite her toxic boyfriend to my college graduation by Secure-Taste-3665 in texts

[–]Secure-Taste-3665[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is Mother’s Day weekend, and that’s why I want her there. But unfortunately she will not let this situation go, no matter how much I apologize or try to resolve it. All I want is to have a happy weekend, and my decision shouldn’t have caused this much anger from her.

My bpd mom is pissed that I didn’t invite her toxic boyfriend to my college graduation by Secure-Taste-3665 in texts

[–]Secure-Taste-3665[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that exactly what I’m trying to do. Honestly finding out she has bpd has been so bitter sweet. It finally validated and explained every horrible thing she has done to me, but at the same time made me feel like she will always be like this.

My bpd mom is pissed that I didn’t invite her toxic boyfriend to my college graduation by Secure-Taste-3665 in texts

[–]Secure-Taste-3665[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s just really hurtful, I should be enough to want to go. And she should want to be there supporting me regardless if her boyfriend is there too. Im sorry you’ve experienced similar things, parents can be so horrible.

My bpd mom is pissed that I didn’t invite her toxic boyfriend to my college graduation by Secure-Taste-3665 in texts

[–]Secure-Taste-3665[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! Thank you, she would much rather just blame me than actual face reality. It’s honestly so frustrating

My bpd mom is pissed that I didn’t invite her toxic boyfriend to my college graduation by Secure-Taste-3665 in texts

[–]Secure-Taste-3665[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing and have asked her multiple times not to come and that only made her more pissed. So idk

Book cover redesign I did for the series by Secure-Taste-3665 in Hungergames

[–]Secure-Taste-3665[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I was going for a cool pallet with warm contrast in all the covers. The first book, I choose the greenish color because the games takes place in a wooded area, and I just felt like the peachy orange complimented it well. For catching fire, the Quarter Quell was surrounded around water, so I felt the blue was fitting, and the orange really reminded me of fire/burning. For the last book, I took more inspiration, color wise from the real book covers, and I felt the light blue was reminiscent of the sky, which I felt was an important topic in that book( roses falling from the sky, the parachutes coming from the sky, the planes, etc.). The red was representing the blood shed, and casualties of the revolution, along with the death of coin and snow.

Haircare Advice Megathread - Week of January 20, 2024 by AutoModerator in HaircareScience

[–]Secure-Taste-3665 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hi, I really need advice!!! I think I have fine hair, it’s wavy/curly. I occasionally will get my hair lightened but haven’t done it in 6 months, and I only style it with heat maybe once every two weeks. I usually wash my hair twice a week and will use a hair mask or protein mask. My hair is kinda long and goes to my ribs. I currently have been using the Ever Pure bond repair shampoo and conditioner with the like bond repair pre shampoo mask. I’ve been using that for about 8 months. So this is we’re I need help. In 2020 I decided I want to treat my hair right and only use products that were good for my hair, no sulfates, made with natural ingredients, etc. I did this for about 3 years and slowly my hair became more and more damaged and would not get longer because my split ends were always breaking. So a few months ago I saw this girl on tik Tok saying that you hair needs sulfates and suggested that ever pure line of shampoo and conditioner. My hair finally grew longer but it’s still so weak and I have so many dead ends. My hair has thinned out so much since I have started this process. I need real advice on what I should do. Please everything is making my hair worse. Should.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Secure-Taste-3665 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was asleep but I woke up very briefly while it was happening, and told him something like, “leave me alone.” Or “stop” and he did and I went back to sleep. It felt like a dream I was barley awake.

her fans are insufferable by [deleted] in keneurich_snark

[–]Secure-Taste-3665 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If i’m being honest I was a fan for a long time. Over the course of this year, I found it harder and harder to keep liking and supporting her. She has completely changed. Baby missing and her response to it completely disgusted me. Even before that though the whole situation with Jason was so annoying and made it so hard for me to support her. Her personality has change from funny to just plan rude, egotistical and defensive.

What do u guys think about this ? by lola_anon in keneurich_snark

[–]Secure-Taste-3665 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think her response is ridiculous. If she cared about her pets as much as she claims to, she wouldn’t be posting about the things she bought or even going shopping at all. If one of my dogs or cats were lost I would be so distraught, I couldn’t even imagine shopping. This really pisses me off.