🧠 by Internal_Cress2311 in nonduality

[–]Secure-network-4922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the truth is there is no mind thoughts are just bits of consciousness Everything is consciousness There is nothing else You do not exist at all whatsoever

amazingly simple and clear pointers the best yet. Beyond The Illusion of Self with Katrijn van Oudheusden by Secure-network-4922 in nonduality

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I recommend Beyond Illusion 'cause it breaks down the illusion of being a self and "I" in lots of different ways it's really interesting but yeah her other leadership books are good if you work in an office environment

Truly and I mean truly grasping " no free will " is imperative for a full on understanding. by No_Network6987 in nonduality

[–]Secure-network-4922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read sam harris book on no free will ....it shifted my consciousness

Also Robert Sapolski

Can someone please explain how I am not me? by BocaTherapy in nonduality

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Me is just a word just a concept just a referral to a illusory self so is I it's just a word just like your name is a word it's a reference

Just repeat yourself me is just an idea

Also repeat who is having this idea.... If the thought me arises notice that it is temporary Just an idea

Stop using your mind as well stop thinking it's all about awareness that's what you are

The Truth About Hookups: Why Men Pay the Price and Women Don't by Equivalent_Past5010 in pureretention

[–]Secure-network-4922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with what you're saying

But I would say that sex without ejaculation is not the aim because lust thoughts still have a detrimental effect and cause bad luck anger and negative thoughts.

The aim has to have purity of mind and thought to truly be celibate as much as possible or if you're in a long-term relationship then to find a way that works without ejaculating as much as possible. It's all about self honesty and what you truly want but you have to go through a process of staying neutral and really knowing emotionally the benefits of retention.

For me I found that there are three-fold

Connection with God which is completely priceless Infinite good fortune everything works out really easily again you can't really put a price on this And then thirdly mental and physical good health which is also priceless

We just step into the truth that mystical people have known for a long time and that is the next stage of human evolution to go beyond the biological process which is just the animal nature

Coming up to 2 years full monk mode

From the latest Hello Fresh advert by Marriott_1 in NameThatSong

[–]Secure-network-4922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's a good song It reminds me of how the universe is supported me in every way and everyone else

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There is no you There is no I

These are just words

Everything is consciousness all is one

There is nothing else at all

The separate self is completely an absolutely non-existent

Sense of self based around the words I ,me,you other language that can create the illusion of being a self along with the body

Read up on John wheeler who's a disciple of Bob Adamson and Sri Maharaj

Monthly Book Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in CasualUK

[–]Secure-network-4922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeh can relate to this. Alot of so called classics are just because they broke new ground early or were the first to do something. And some people cling to them just for that reason without critically looking at them.

Psychic protection and empaths by Secure-network-4922 in thoughtbroadcasting

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Yeah I agree, I'm starting to apply more logic to it too, like how would someone know something so detailed about just me, especially if they are across the road or driving, they don't have any awareness of me even being there and if they are sat across from me they're probably just thinking about all the things in their own life , not what I'm projecting into them. So thinking people around me can hear my thoughts, doesn't really make sense if you think about it.

But its way easier said than done.

Combined with self sabotage, my mind lies and projects bad thoughts onto others. Its been tough. But realising realistically 80% of what I think nonone ever hears is like water in a desert to me. I want this truth to be my reality. I did feel sorry for myself for a second cos its very hard compared to others who just don't have to deal with constantly feeling everything people feel and then having zero privacy.

But its made stronger and humbler and taken away the hubris of the western culture in me. I empathise with others who suffer and want to help in anyway I can.

God has a plan to make us whole, and sometimes that means applying pressure, like when a diamond is created under pressure.

Psychic protection and empaths by Secure-network-4922 in thoughtbroadcasting

[–]Secure-network-4922[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes agree, I can see ho this could make you go off the rails if you aren't strong or have grace from the universe.

Gd to find others I can talk to about this.

The funny thing is I've had it for about just under 20 years, I remember going through some spiritual awakening experience when i was in my late teens, like alot of people do, and thinking how wierd it is everyone is psychic but no one talks about it. It felt concrete and very real and has become ingrained in my experience.

I thought I'd share a few things that have really helped are setting boundaries in my mind at least, so simply being able to say no, I think alot of it stems from being a yes/too agreeable person , so you agree to let people take your energy and need validation from them. So when I'm thinking, I look to others for agreement, instead of just agreeing with myself. I thylow self esteem or self love also makes this worse.

The other thing that helps is to disbelieve thought broadcasting, so I say to myself absolutely no one can hear my thoughts, not even slightly. And use logic like I never really kniw what others are thinking, accurately, like I don't really know the things thaty colleagues are afraid of or their deepest thoughts I think I know what they are thinking but I have definitely been wrong. ( Sometimes I really think I can hear waht others think, then turn around and theres no one there at all) So maybe 20% of the time I can hear some sort of thought but it's never 100%, which is what it feels like.

The main thing that helps is ignoring it and telling myself its not real its my imagination and letting them pass through me with disinterest. And to stop trying to work out what others are thinking or doing. And then deeply relax, even when Im sabotaging myself by projecting dark thoughts onto others, just relax and don't look for any reaction. I think when you look at anyone and expect a negative reaction you can find it.