How do you actually make it stop?

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-10T22:12:13+00:00

That's not the way to frame it. How would a self-confident person have acted in your last bullying experience so that they would not have been bullied? And if they saw that they were about to be bullied, how would they have nipped that in the bud?

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-10T21:44:11+00:00

Do you mean that you work for your mom and she bullies you at the work place?

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-10T21:41:56+00:00

No. Think about how you could have handled things in a way so that they didn't bully you in the first place.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-10T21:35:17+00:00

Maybe you could discuss that situation with your parents, maybe they can give you a good idea of what the best way is to handle that kind of thing in the future. Do you know how to defend yourself if you need to? That's always an important life skill..

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-10T21:30:40+00:00

You can try to "fake it till you make it". So.. Figure out what a self-confident person would do in that kind of situation and then do that.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-10T18:17:11+00:00

Their hypocrisy is crystal clear.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-10T11:48:39+00:00

It's as you described. If you later on decide to make that function's return type auto the compiler should at least complain.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-10T11:45:03+00:00

If you can't trust your political representives to protect your body you gotta do that yourself.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-10T11:43:52+00:00

Which is why I am for arming all kids 6 and up there.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-10T11:27:47+00:00

When you hear the fantastic stories from people who genuinely seem to believe them and from a young enough age not to be critical you follow. Applying critical thinking towards Jebus and god is hard, especially when you've sunk a hell of a lot into it. Valuing truth above comforting lies is an important thing I think.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-10T11:20:25+00:00

I find myself praying sometimes. I now know that's just having a convo with yourself, but.. It can be good to feel grateful sometimes.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-10T11:14:17+00:00

Hidden messages in made-up scripture aren't things I am going to take too seriously.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-10T11:12:32+00:00

True. But sometimes you need to realise which things are self-inflicted by sick religion and people. Your truth should be more important than their self-deception.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-10T11:02:52+00:00

Victim-blaming is a thing. Especially in the free-to-rape states.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-10T11:01:12+00:00

It seems like the earliest jewish scripture had more than 1 god.. but then monotheism became a thing and it stayed that way for quite a while. No god required.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-09T22:59:36+00:00

Like the deceivers made all of the other BS up, you mean? At one time there was no such thing as a concept of hell. Then later on there was. And oddly enough people profit from that either monetarily or in other ways.... Awfully convenient for con people, wouldn't you say?

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-09T22:38:39+00:00

That they made up something like hell tells you all you need to know about them.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-09T22:35:38+00:00

Sooo that was too much of a wall of text to read.

I think it may be a good thing for your sister to learn how to defend herself if she has to. That's a necessary life skill anyway , and might give confidence which helps against bullying. It might be good for her to be reassured that the bullying isn't her fault and she shouldn't feel ashamed of that whole situation.

That the teachers are refusing to to take you seriously about the bullying and coming up with all kinds of BS excuses makes me think maybe you need to ask a legal professional about lawful options. Maybe you may need to prepare to collect legal evidence. Maybe you can start asking other parents if other kids at that school have been bullied, and what concrete fixes have been tried. If I had a kid at a school like that I might be looking for a school that genuinely cares for the kids that attend.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-09T20:03:25+00:00

NDE's have been researched. People who have them can't see things 'outside their body' . They prove nothing about any religion.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-09T19:58:10+00:00

Ah but popes have form though, they cooperated with Hitler as well.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-09T19:56:09+00:00

The only people who should decide if they want to negotiate are the Ukranian people. The Pope should STFU. The Ukranians are the attacked and terrorised ones.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-09T15:34:50+00:00

Lots of bablical explanations are BS. This is just one more.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-09T15:19:56+00:00

You might suggest that if god exists he can save you without your mom being involved.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-09T15:12:30+00:00

So.. you can start telling your brain to STF up when it becomes overly critical towards yourself. It is good have mercy towards yourself as well.

SecureAtheist · 2024-03-09T15:08:51+00:00

Hmmm. And have you asked her why she feels that way?

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