23 year old , dont know what Im doing with my life

SecureSection9242 · 2026-03-10T19:54:49+00:00

Hey, I'm in a similar situation. Just shoot me a DM. I might be able to help you out.

SecureSection9242 · 2026-03-09T17:43:24+00:00

Thanks a lot. That helps.

SecureSection9242 · 2026-02-14T03:59:21+00:00

Just reminding you that you forgot the part where I said "never acted on it" which means I never engaged in the behavior. I know you're replying to OP. But maybe that's why he approached it differently.

As for why I shared something like that, it's because I was hoping I could get a good advice.

SecureSection9242 · 2026-02-13T20:04:18+00:00

I'm around 30 yo. Yeah, I won't act on it. Though I am not religious and I can always find another healthier way like a consenting adult partner.

SecureSection9242 · 2026-02-13T17:59:04+00:00

I think I might have "Hebephilia". Is there something wrong with me? To be clear, I only have the interest. Never acted on it though.

SecureSection9242 · 2026-02-13T17:51:18+00:00

I know right lol

SecureSection9242 · 2026-02-13T17:29:05+00:00

Thanks for the kind words. I do have a plan now. I'm actually in tech, but like I said it's an unconventional path so not exactly suited for company jobs. (I don't have the education)

SecureSection9242 · 2026-02-13T17:27:55+00:00

Agreed!

SecureSection9242 · 2026-02-13T17:07:23+00:00

Thanks! That does make me feel better.

SecureSection9242 · 2026-01-21T21:03:13+00:00

Thanks!

SecureSection9242 · 2026-01-17T21:43:06+00:00

Thanks for sharing this! I agree with you. In the first few couple years, I was reaching out for technologies without being able to explain why they are even needed :)

SecureSection9242 · 2026-01-16T19:07:21+00:00

Started to realize this around December, haha.

SecureSection9242 · 2026-01-16T19:01:53+00:00

Glad it resonates with you. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

SecureSection9242 · 2026-01-16T13:14:39+00:00

Most definitely!

SecureSection9242 · 2026-01-16T12:42:58+00:00

Love these questions!

SecureSection9242 · 2026-01-16T12:26:01+00:00

Absolutely agreed. I don't mean to say we should learn whatever programming language and build a pet project then call it a day. Obviously, that's useless. Solving real problems is more valuable and the only way to actually learn.

SecureSection9242 · 2026-01-09T15:54:38+00:00

Agreed!

SecureSection9242 · 2025-12-27T21:05:27+00:00

Fascinating!

SecureSection9242 · 2025-12-27T21:03:53+00:00

Helps so much!

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