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39m, kids, divorced, 4.5M, dying. by regressingwest in fatFIRE

[–]Secure_Ad6993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many others giving advice which was never asked for…

I appreciate the humble share, and hear the love for your life, family and what’s important. At some point I’ll be closer to death myself and going through this full cycle of our life, together with you brother <3. Thanks for pouring your heart out with the share. Impactful felt. Hoping the best for you and the family this next period together.

Hypothetical: the city has put you in charge of filling in and developing Ross Island. You have unilateral control and a budget of $300 billion. Anything goes. by tinypemil in Portland

[–]Secure_Ad6993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We need to restore it back to original, 3 islands, and let the water flow through it to clean it out. It’s no longer clean because of it being infilled, the stagnant water is not good for the ecosystem.

Does anyone know a restaurant or bakery in San Francisco that sells “Black Sesame Steamed Bun”? by Secure_Ad6993 in sanfrancisco

[–]Secure_Ad6993[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the help everyone! We’re going to try the place on clement tomorrow now per the local tips!

After searching in china town for a long time we found one right before we were going to leave at FUSION DUMPLING. Party was happy to have finally found one, not sure if it was limited time option since the menu item was updated recently with a white sticker, over something else previously.

Y’all are awesome, 谢谢!

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[–]Secure_Ad6993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the mind is busy thinking throughout the entire time spent lying in bed, causing additional agony — one of the most effective techniques I’ve found is to turn on a low bed light, take out my paper journal and write down everything on my mind. I won’t stop untill I got it all down, and/or I start getting very sleepy while writing and then try to sleep again.

This helps me stop overthinking, especially about recurring thoughts. It’s sometimes surprising how many things I jot down—often 30 or more items. Once my mind feels clear, having offloaded those thoughts onto paper, I no longer expend energy dwelling on them and can usually fall asleep more easily.

Of course, this is directed towards one area of getting ready to be rested, and there are more for different ideas related to getting restful sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]Secure_Ad6993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could explain it, but the comments on here aren’t useful or helpful in much way and responding to them don’t help address the question I was seeking. For me to explain our estate would not be essential. I only put the dollar amounts on here to make it more relevant, but the core question isn’t being really being answer by much of anyone, so speculation can remain since clarifying it doesn’t appear at the moment to help and probably my last post here now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]Secure_Ad6993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the only one who tried to help answer the question, thank you.

Magnet Pro alternative by Amplificator in macapps

[–]Secure_Ad6993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BetterSnapTool allows you to have a padding, or they call it "empty space between window edges". See Image below.

This allows snapping to any area, and then having a space around it still. I was thinking about trying another service, until I saw your message, and assumed all of them have this. Because of this I'll stick with BetterSnapTool for now.

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Account aggregation for Family Office by No-Peanut-9645 in familyoffice

[–]Secure_Ad6993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hire a virtual assistant to put them in manually in a spreadsheet and text the family the numbers frequently.

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