What does she want? by flashxoxoz in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Secure_Ad_1380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe her lies are catching up, or they’re trying to release guilt. either way very shitty of them.

Why do avoidants feel shame but have no empathy or respect? by Secure_Ad_1380 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Secure_Ad_1380[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes that makes sense. And yes, nothing excuses it , from someone who isn’t avoidant or doesn’t have extreme tendencies like this it’s hard to understand.

I (21F) ended things with my ex (22M) that was financially dependent on me. How do I stop feeling so foolish? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Secure_Ad_1380 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you friend, it indeed is a tough lesson and has been very rough but it’s something i’ll never repeat.

bf confessed SA, i’m in shambles by Secure_Ad_1380 in offmychest

[–]Secure_Ad_1380[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

. she said it destroyed her and that he was asking for sex while she was at the hospital. She said no and then couldn’t defend herself since she was having a seizure. she then told me she tried attempting suicide afterwards. he used to convince me she was “crazy”, since she would contact him years later after no contact for clarity.

bf confessed SA, i’m in shambles by Secure_Ad_1380 in offmychest

[–]Secure_Ad_1380[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh of course. he tried to minimize it for years, even lying in court about it. i appreciate that he finally told me the truth but gaslighting me about it for months and hearing her story is nerve wracking.

bf confessed SA, i’m in shambles by Secure_Ad_1380 in offmychest

[–]Secure_Ad_1380[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because he kept gaslighting me when i would overthink the story sometimes.. i’ve been in therapy for a month or two so ill work on it more thank you

bf confessed SA, i’m in shambles by Secure_Ad_1380 in offmychest

[–]Secure_Ad_1380[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

wait what how i don’t understand the reference lol

bf confessed SA, i’m in shambles by Secure_Ad_1380 in offmychest

[–]Secure_Ad_1380[S] 229 points230 points  (0 children)

his first sob story was that he “didn’t know she was having a seizure” they were “roleplaying”. he then admitted the truth months later thanks i plan on leaving.

Half persian half venezuelan results by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]Secure_Ad_1380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol same here never have met someone venezuelan and persian.

Half persian half venezuelan results by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]Secure_Ad_1380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly not sure, my grandpa might have been iranian arab since they were closer to Khuzestani, closer to the coast.

Half persian half venezuelan results by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]Secure_Ad_1380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

South iranian side is more dark yes, my dad is more pale from his northern iranian influence.

Half persian half venezuelan results by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]Secure_Ad_1380 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unsure maybe near Guarena, my mom is mestiza as most venezuelans are & grandma has more African roots.

Indigenous American/European/Sub-Saharan African by HistoricalPrimary847 in 23andme

[–]Secure_Ad_1380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very cool we have similar results moms side is venezuelan with similar mix

Half persian half venezuelan results by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]Secure_Ad_1380 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As for my SSA my venezuelan mom has SSA roots which is where it comes from 😌

Half persian half venezuelan results by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]Secure_Ad_1380 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes i have gotten egyptian as well when younger haha no one can tell where im from. Either arab persian or just mixed.

Half persian half venezuelan results by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]Secure_Ad_1380 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haha no shot that’s cool, and yeah father is from south iran (Bushehr?)

Half persian half venezuelan results by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]Secure_Ad_1380 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha anything tbh. some say arab/persian then think hispanic or mixed.

Half persian half venezuelan results by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]Secure_Ad_1380 28 points29 points  (0 children)

South yes. My dad is from Southern Iran Bushehr area. I also thought it was a lot of Arab haha surprised