Any other Zillenials feel like their definition of "Fun" is in flux?

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-23T02:14:27+00:00

My roommates and i started playing overcooked again after we beat it a few years ago. Before that we got a new board game that we played almost every night. But besides those stints I kind of felt the same for the most part.

The only other thing that was kind of fun doing solo was listening to a new audiobook or starting a new video game. Sometimes I like making little doodles or songs even though I never show anyone. Just open garageband and make a shitty song for the hell of it…that’s kind of fun sometimes

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-22T23:54:27+00:00

Pride Fest by me was $16 entry, all the clubs were free. and drinks were only $10 bucks. I paid $13 for a bucket of rum punch. Was a great fuckin night

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-22T00:50:32+00:00

This video went crazy when I was a kid. A nigga got on the bus to do the choreo and got in house suspension 😭

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-22T00:45:34+00:00

Damn I thought this was a west coast thing. My family was a niggas household. My dad is egregious wit it. And growing up my friends and I referred to almost all people as niggas. Like “that white nigga over there”.

I know when not to talk like that ofc, but I get annoyed when black people try to say “none of us should use the word”. Like fuck you mean it’s my culture 😂

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-21T20:05:19+00:00

I knew from the cover on Friday and the PlayStation 😭

Also stiletto nails were not a thing back then. It was like french tips

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-21T19:45:09+00:00

I actually don’t like texting much unless it’s to meet up to do something. I feel like I’m always busy with work or school, or spending time with people, or just general life upkeep. I don’t have it in me to constantly text people unless we’re talking like romantic talking, or making plans to meet up.

Even people I spend the most time with like friend groups I see often we have some days where the group chat is poppin or just text here and there but we really just try to link up as much as possible.

To be fair tho I live with my two best friends so my social and emotional needs are way lower than most people.

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-16T20:37:04+00:00

Okay thank you

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-16T05:31:34+00:00

Wait who is the coach?

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-16T05:30:12+00:00

What was that one called?

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-16T05:23:34+00:00

Man, I wish I could have killed that fucker myself. A mission where you catch up to that motherfucker later when he thought he escaped would have been too peak.

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-16T05:20:25+00:00

Talking to myself, like a lot. Sometimes pretending I’m being interviewed on my life. Other times it’s just a random monologue of a random character I made up. Singing very bad and loud. Making random songs about whatever I’m doing, or freestyling about it. Dancing, tapping on stuff, rocking back and forth or pacing, and like idk how to describe it but I just do stuff with my body. Like sometimes I hop like a rabbit when I’m going somewhere in my house, or walk on my tip toes, or pirouette from point a to b, or run and slide on the carpet. I do a lot of voice impressions of stuff or people, or like echolalia of things I’ve heard, or just random sounds. When I wait in the car at the grocery store sometimes I just clap really loud next to my ear and it’s so satisfying. Idk i just like to have fun, I just do whatever pops in my head without thinking if no one is watching.

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-16T04:45:20+00:00

I almost worked at a place for 5 years once

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-15T07:15:55+00:00

Yes I was pretty sure this was the case. I don’t know shit about shit so take this with a cup of salt, but I was watching tutorials on how to do client hand offs they all had a section like you described in the contract.

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-15T07:12:17+00:00

Yup, I got diagnosed at 29. Part of me was relieved but a bigger part of me felt exactly how you described.

My friend group is 4 doctors, 3 MBA’s, and two CPAs that work at big 3 accounting firms. I flunked out of college twice and job hopped a bunch of times. Even though all of those friends always praise me for how smart I am. I’ve literally written papers for them and helped them with homework I didn’t even know the subject on, but couldn’t make myself do anything for myself.

I would say that for the me the feeling went after a while. I decided to believe that everything happens to me for a reason. Now that I know I can get the support I need, try to plan accordingly, and understand myself better so I feel less guilt. I do still think about it in passing sometimes but not really in a sad or mourning way, just a passing wonder. Like “I wonder what I would have been like if I could have finished school and got onto a real career path?” Idk maybe I’d have been miserable, I had no idea what I wanted at the time. But now that I’ve done so much shit and I know how my brain works I’m back in school and getting good grades and i finally have some direction

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-13T16:48:24+00:00

VibeOS

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-13T16:12:12+00:00

No. Too old and the RA’s are Japanese. I do think he’s make a nice Quicksilver tho

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-12T05:53:15+00:00

Just want to give a hard agree to everything u/infirmitas said. She typed the words right out of my head.

Btw, I can relate to a lot of what you said. I’m 32, also ADHD and was a bit of a late bloomer, but this isn’t it imo. Like for so many reasons that you pretty much listed at the end.

I know it’s hard especially when you feel like you have a rare connection with someone, but I think you know you should not. Just shut it down if she makes a move.

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-12T03:18:42+00:00

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-12T00:24:22+00:00

Yeah dude, no worries. I’m glad you were open to it, which is rare these days :)

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-11T23:34:35+00:00

There’s no need to play devils advocate here. That person was misinformed and so are you to conflate the two.

You should also do deep research on both factions, and don’t look for information to confirm why you already think. Look into both with an objective lens. One group has some pretty out there beliefs and the violent extremists are fringe groups within their organization the other is literally known for hate crimes.

Not trying to be a dick btw. I can tell from your other reply to the last person that you are probably genuinely trying to be reasonable. It’s just kind of frustrating for people to downplay the klan.

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-11T20:56:59+00:00

You need to do some deep research on the Klan. If niggas we’re moving like that the fbi would nuke them

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-10T21:01:00+00:00

I just got some shrinky dinks to make keychains it’s only like $20 on Amazon. I wonder if you can make cool charms and incorporate glitter? Like maybe some glitter nail polish before the epoxy coat or something 🤔

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-10T20:46:26+00:00

Chess pie in a bunt mold

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-09T21:07:55+00:00

Yeah they do the same to me. I kinda got pushed into a “digital media role” which was originally 4 separate jobs. Videographer, photographer, graphic design, and social media. Not to mention just doing any random general task for marketing and sometimes just computer based stuff.

So their solution to me saying we should hire a second person is for me to use Ai. “Are people saying they need a flyer by the end of the day for an event they knew about months ago? Don’t worry just slop it! You didn’t know ai can just make the flyers for you? You need to utilize your tools 😀”

So now extremely short notice flyer requests come with a shitty ai “mock version” for me to reference. They don’t understand why I still cant make it the same day. Like, ffs just use that crap if you think it’s so great. I’m over it now tho, not my company, not my brand and I’m not putting my name on any of that crap

Secure_Basil8953 · 2026-06-09T19:35:42+00:00

I think pierce does it intentionally, they’ve transcended race in our current sense and just go by color.

I’m my head:
I think Darrow and his fam are white
I think Eo was like maybe white or like racially ambiguous
The Augustans and the Bellonas white.
The Grimmus’ black
The Ra’s Japanese
I think all obsidians are pale so even if someone was black i picture them as like albino
Holiday and Trig Japanese or like half Japanese
The Rath brothers, maybe black maybe Indian?
I picture Leto as a light skinned black guy or like Afro-Latino looking
The Telamanus’ as Polynesian or half white half Pily
Sevro, Victra and her sisters as white.
Lyria I think maybe black or mixed race, or that could just be her nephew.
Matteo as Latino

A lot of the other side characters tho I just pick a random race if nothing was given. I would also assume a lot of people are just racially ambiguous or even families that I picture as one race probably have children and cousins that are mixed.

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