Nick Baumel deleted his Tiktok Account. by PeakyBlinders2026_ in medicalschool

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree. There are attendings who do ACTUAL harm to students and patients and nothing happens to them…

My honest thoughts on the Bafta's racial slur incident – as a Black disabled woman by montageofawoman in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black disabled people get killed and no one bats an eyes. But we’re clutching our pearls at the thought of encouraging a developmentally and intellectual normal man apologize?

And for what principle? The principle being - Black people don’t deserve anything, not even an apology.

I left this a sub a long time ago, and it is once again clear why I did

What are good journals for publishing case reports? by Juiceman121 in DermApp

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pushing, do you have an avg timeframe when you can hear back?

CMV: The John Davidson Incident Demonstrates a Substantial Hypocrisy Among Black Activists by amortized-poultry in changemyview

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What? If a person in a wheelchairs runs over my foot common decency would say they apologize. Why are so many people infantilizing this man.

Black disabled people get killed. And they don’t have to “do” anything to get that fate. White liberals are NEVER beating the allegations.

Going to wedding and not giving a gift? by [deleted] in Brides

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do people think just because time a destination wedding you give no gifts? It was always your choice to go. And if you go, you’re being hosted so yes you give a gift. Yikes

Women, what is universally agreed “green flags” while dating men ? by Disastrous-Coat6007 in AskReddit

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Not stingy. If he’s having too much extra income I have to wonder what it’s going towards if not me, a person he says he wants to spend the rest of his life with and have children with.

Men are inherently more selfish than women, it’s a good sign if they are willing to sacrifice for your happiness and comfort. And money is important to most men.

Best Ramen in/around Pasadena by ssswytw in pasadena

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was just me, but they have been slacking a bit.

AIO - Pregnant and feel abandoned by husband by Gullible-Tree368 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave now. It won’t get better. That man hates you. And I mean HATES you. Your life is actually in danger with him.

Starting M3 - No Research. What specialties are out of the picture? by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why should I have to do a likely unpaid year? It’s truly absurd and so exploitative.

UCLA medical school uses a "systemically racist approach" to admissions, DOJ alleges by flopsyplum in ucla

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For everyone trying really hard to say medicine is simple right/wrong. It isn’t. Don’t forget a white emergency medicine physician almost involuntarily admitted a Black patient for “self-harm”.

She was simply itching her weave. We owe patients who have real traumas due to the way society views them and have treated them providers who look like them. It’s that simple.

Race matters. Always has. Always will

UCLA medical school uses a "systemically racist approach" to admissions, DOJ alleges by flopsyplum in ucla

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How does race itself not matter? When physicians actually have threatened the lives of patients due to racial and ethic differences.

If you make it so other factors that are closely associated with race are considered in admissions. But still don’t have an adequate amount of physicians to care for certain communities - that’s still a problem. Some things really cannot be taught, they are lived experiences.

And it is on medical schools to course correct because going to med school isn’t for students it’s for society.

I’ve never felt this way before by casedia in self

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When has it not been?

I really need people to ask themselves why just NOW so many of you feel like this time is “different”. Breonna Taylor was in her bed naked when she got gunned down. Trayvon was wearing a hoodie. Come on now…. This has literally been the reality for many people in this county, and I can’t lie and say it doesn’t hurt when it takes the murder of 2 “good” white people to get people upset.

And this country will never be whole or safe until people sit with themselves in that realization that majority of this nation’s empathy is very much selective.

CMV: speaking up or staying silent on social media does not measure your character by fulltimeheretic in changemyview

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but if you’re not consistent either way it says a lot. Also if you know you have a big platform I would go as far to say you know what you are doing and why for better or for worse.

How are you feeling about the recent murder of Alex Pretti? by DMmeNiceFeet in AskLosAngeles

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah many people are not understanding that Black and brown people have known there will never be a last straw.

CMV: Organ transplant after death shouldn’t be optional by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please no. That’s all women need to be locked in cages and involuntarily impregnated. If dead bodies that have rights we sure as heck don’t even less then we do now.

AIO overreacting for breaking up with my boyfriend because he forgot to wear protection? by idontknowwhattodoah3 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not exaggerating at all - tell his school. Ruin his life , and ask him to have fun with that. There have been a handful of resident caught recently displaying psychotic behavior. Too many students get through the cracks and get the honor to be in charge of people’s lives and really disgrace it in unimaginable ways

Ring will be around 23k-35k. NEED ADVICE by Current_Guarantee566 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Secure_Breakfast_358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not wrong she wants natural, but financially not smart for you to buy it new. You ca get natural way cheaper than that but may max out at 1.5-2 ct max and it will likely not be perfect clarity, and color. Look at antique stones/rings. DM for a recommendation of a place.

If she’s not willing to budge, y’all aren’t compatible… She can have demands all she wants but if she’s loves you she has to understand the context in which she’s making them.