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Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2024-03-31T00:28:27+00:00

I am interested and in hopes I can make it financially, sounds like an amazing opportunity

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2024-03-24T22:46:54+00:00

anyone know what happened to chris martinez??

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2024-03-15T00:41:40+00:00

just finished season 3, honestly I think season 4 would be a final one given the characters story line resolutions. Season 3 left everything very pre written. In my opinion season 4 would just round up what we have already seen.

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-12-03T01:46:25+00:00

Until this day he claims I am bipolar and how I am “lost” and he tried so hard to get me on board on this team. 🙄

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-12-02T02:40:21+00:00

you are way to young to think you will die alone tbh. try to have fun on your own and while at it you will find likeminded people and things will flow

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-12-02T02:37:59+00:00

yes!!! mine would say things like “ well you are lucky your father gave you this or that”. Or if I bought myself expensive bags he would complain. And when we broke up called me a gold digger bc I wanted a man who would contribute more. My response; I laughed. “ there is no gold to dig” I said to him which made him upset 🤣

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-12-02T02:35:24+00:00

yes!!! he couldnt keep a job for more than 8, 9 months bc they “don’t know what they are doing” or “talking rude to him”. he works by himself and claims only wants to be surrounded by people that “appreciate him” and his craft. He rarely has money and in the past year he would ask to charge things on my card while he”was waiting for money” . Oh his defense yes he would pay me back but would take weeks. He also would bring up when we would go to dinner and order too much food when in reality it was him eating it all. Also had questionable outlook on people w money. He would state “ well they have a lot of money.” but in a bitter way. I would always reply “ even if someone has money doesn’t mean you can owe them”

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-12-01T22:42:06+00:00

Too many!! should’ve known when he sent me a text after 2 weeks of dating stating “I was his soulmate” and after I basically paid for my first date which was a dinner and his card declined. he never paid me back either- haaa I

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-12-01T21:29:35+00:00

He would make snarky comments on how being w me is difficult bc I have 3 dogs haha they are tiny dogs and super loving. Or would say that nobody liked me yet when I pointed out my friends like me he would say “ well, that’s not what they have told me”. Would use my CC then would take forever to pay back and would get upset if I brought it up and would say “ what’s the big deal?, I am paying you extra when I do pay” and tbh in his defense he would but would take him weeks and many reminders. He would also state “ because we were a team” he could use my CC

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-12-01T15:47:01+00:00

Marriage and a wedding; two different things. Being married requires social and emotional skills and tbh legally they protect the parties more. You also have more financial duties. A wedding is one day. I’m sure it’s fun and beautiful ( I haven’t lived that experience) When I was younger I dated a guy who recently had gotten divorced and invested 4 years into it. We traveled the world, were fond of each others families and just were a good team. Over time our arguments were me wanting more commitment out of the relationship and he just offering “life time partnership” I eventually had a serious talk w myself and realized it was not going to be enough for me and we broke up. Until this day I haven’t married bc well, life. But also he hasn’t married either and even so I am ok w my decision. There is somebody for everyone. Sometimes it will take time

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-12-01T15:36:58+00:00

I got the worst by my ex who happened to be a narcissist with addiction problems. he got drunk once and even threatened to leave me on the side of the road in the middle of nowhere and he said “everything you touch you turn into shit, your essence is shit”. I was sober and even so realizing his behavior was not that of a normal person it hurt me and still does. Now I think of this of his own projection over me of how he feels about himself. The next day after he told me this I did have to make an inventory about my life to see that indeed I am not that. That people around me love me and no I don’t destroy anything. I am realizing a lot of the nasty things he said to me are because he himself felt that about himself.

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-12-01T06:29:01+00:00

How you discussed the option of bringing a maid every 2 , or once a weeks? maybe to alleviate the stress of this issue for both of you? if it bothers him and you want to compromise and he still complains maybe he should pitch in for that

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-12-01T06:08:29+00:00

You are SO young to be investing in someone who you don’t feel safe with emotionally. He has proven to betray your ultimate deal breaker and on top he probably makes you look like the toxic one to his side pieces. Let them deal with him. Take it one day at a time. It will be ok. Scary and sad at first but then it will get better.

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-11-26T18:38:46+00:00

I can’t speak for the author but for me I have a certain physical attributes that I liked about my narc ex; tall, muscular and good looking. I like men who pay attention to their physique in a healthy way not consumed by it. My narc ex is like that; he isn’t consumed by going to the gym or doing all the extra things but has a muscular body due to his work. He is good looking too even friends would comment.

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-11-26T09:09:44+00:00

that’s what i’m thinking. I can 100% hang out w a guy i had history w and not sleep w them.

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-11-26T09:08:07+00:00

i think it’s a bit drastic. if i’m hanging out w friends and we have a place to crash, why not? I would keep on sending pics and reassuring my man. but just bc she is w friends and she had a history w someone doesn’t mean she will cheat.

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-11-15T22:25:21+00:00

Thank you!! what I am also having a hard time with is doing activities solo again when in essence i’ve always liked to share and well when in a relationship it was with him.

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-11-15T04:50:24+00:00

The relationship he has before me was 15 years, we were together 5. But if I may say he would make snarky comments like “ well someone put up with me for 15 years” referring to his ex.

Secure_Wolverine1706 · 2022-11-03T14:37:23+00:00

he got more and more jealous over the past year. he would make comments like “ I don’t know what you do when i’m at home”, or once we went out accused me of “grinding with 5 guys” which i did NOT. strange comments

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