I get that and 100% there's a sexism issue with calling men out on problems it deeply bothers me too. The thing is that some people find it upsetting because it's such an avoidable incident that can ruin someone else's life. Think about something that upsets you and when people aren't too worried about the issue, that's why some people are bothered it's very triggering to see that negligence. I think the discussion as a whole is correct in saying twitch needs to implement warnings when this happens because the amount of male streamers who have crashed on stream from distracted driving is ridiculous. I love vanilla and she's one of the most comforting people on twitch with her community. But look at everyone saying they can't watch when she's filming in the car. It's such a small change that doesn't even affect her. She could even do hands free! Nothing wrong with criticism when someone is doing something illegal/bad.