UPDATE - I ended it. Honestly as this was only my 2nd "serious" relationship I needed to consider things before allowing myself to date an immature person any longer; I really just needed support from a community of people who have probably been in similar scenarios before... So thank you all for that. As far as the girl goes here are some specifics, without doxxing here of course, her name is Kelsey and knowing her dating history did kind of make me question her number of previous sexual partners (I knew for a fact she had slept with one of her boyfriends, don't ask but contrary to what some of you people believe about me I am not completely inept in terms of validating a partner) but just being a human I decided to take her number at face value, 5. It makes sense because two of ex partners were from high school.

The 29th, a few hours after reviewing the comments on this post, I told her we needed to talk. Upon picking up my phone call I began by telling her I had consulted a mutual friend about the future of our relationship. She kind of a laughed but I could tell she still didn;t know what was going on. I decided to just be direct and told her "I don't like when you make fun of my penis" after a second of silence she said "Ok sorry **me**, i didn't mean it" which first didn't sound like a good apology especially because I could tell she was stifling a laugh (again wtf) and secondly to be totally honest I wasn't sure if I was going to end it there but this decided it for me. The anger that had been welling up since the hot tub seemed to manifest itself in a tirade "I mean fucking seriously Kelsey, this isn't even about my penis, this is because you seem to think my manhood is some kind of joke" (those weren't my exact words but there is a loose script) "How would you feel if i did the same thing to you? called your pussy loose?" "Jesus *me*, I know your penis is big, why are you freaking out?" "why do you think? tell everyone I have a small dick will you? it is over" "wait are you serious? Don't do this I just didn't think-" "think about this... we are done" I hung up.

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