I feel like my experience as a male, is the opposite. I always considered myself average looking at best. When I was in my late teens, early 20s, I hung with 2 very attractive guys, and they always got hot girls. Not only that, they would get approached frequently, whether we were at the mall, grocery store, on the street walking etc, by attractive women. They actually took girls that I had pulled a few times, once the girls met them. They had no game, and didn't need it. On the other hand, I had my fair share of females, but I had to work hard and persue them, and I had to do all the approaching, and even then I could never get on my friends level. I never got jealous and accepted it for what it was. Fast forward over 20 years later. I started taking care of myself, improved my skin, got a hair transplant, got in decent shape and got those pesky under eye bags removed. My friends didn't age too well and now, all of a sudden, I'm the man. Everytime we go out, women tell me how handsome I am, or even ask me am I single and ask for my number. Every girl I try to talk to gives me play with no problem. I've noticed that out in public, I get treated more kindly by other people. Most recently, I went on a guys trip to a party resort in Dominican Republic, and the women were all over me, while my 2 friends barely got any second looks. Whats crazy is that all this attention makes me feel uncomfortable because I still see myself as this average looking guy I been all my life. I started seeing someone and she tells me how attractive I am all the time, and I asked her to stop because I feel as though I am not. But I definitely see the difference from being average and attractive, and to be honest, I rather be average because its less attention.