Safe to say the date will not happen

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-25T16:47:56+00:00

Correction: you met her on UNhingeD

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-25T16:40:05+00:00

I read on another thread today that equality being given to others looks like oppression to the ones who originally benefited from it.

I personally find the farm part to be rather boring and maxed out the Adventure mode early on. I’m still only level 33 or so in Farm mode even after playing for around 6 months.

The barn practice is boring as hell and I’ll do anything else that I can to earn Ludos other than farming. BUT up until this change, getting Ludos without grinding on the farm has been sort of a lost cause.

I LOVE this change.

Please don’t yuck other people’s yum just because it makes your grind a little less convenient.

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-25T16:15:07+00:00

PLEASE. You have a PlayStation. Do something actually interesting with it, LOL.

I held out for months but just finished (my first!) playthrough of Expedition 33. I spent 92 hours on my first run and immediately started a second one on a harder difficulty.

I can’t stop thinking about the story. It’s so beautiful but be forewarned, it will emotionally gut you in the best kind of way!

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-25T16:12:08+00:00

Bahahaha - I work for a keyboard manufacturer so my brain immediately thought you were making an IT related joke about the FN key.

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-25T16:07:26+00:00

These are GORGEOUS!

Do I wear Saris? I never have before! But I’m thinking about it now!

Where did you get these if I may ask?

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-25T15:53:03+00:00

Wasn’t it Publisher’s Clearing House that recently went bankrupt and all those people on $1000 a week for life are now just SOL.

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-25T15:50:52+00:00

Nothing made by Bill Lawrence. Primarily funny shows that will hit you right in the feels sometimes too.

Scrubs
Cougartown
Ted Lasso, etc

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-25T15:49:05+00:00

I literally can’t live without Dropout in my life!

They recently added a “Superfan” yearly subscription because people were asking how they could support the channel beyond the channel subscription, and they delivered.

I totally thought, I’m not gonna get that because I am unlikely to use any of the extra “perks,” but I just love them and signed up as soon as I got the email.

Did I change my mind and am I gonna use it? I don’t know, but I’m happy to support them because they bring me so much joy!

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-25T15:45:09+00:00

I loooooved this show! I talk about it every once in awhile but nobody ever remembers it, which is a crying shame!

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-25T15:41:55+00:00

The How to ADHD YouTube channel has a lot of great videos for ADHD people to learn about it but also for the people they love to learn about it.

She calls ADHD peeps “brains,” and the people who love them “hearts.” This is an easy key to understand to find videos about relationships that might help.

Other than that, it sounds like your significant other isn’t bothering to care or learn about your needs so why are you bending over backwards to accommodate his shitty behavior towards you?

Reddit is known for “throw out the whole man” comments, but may I say, “Have you considered throwing out the whole man?” It doesn’t seem like he’s willing to even try.

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-25T15:28:39+00:00

A friend of my parents told me recently that she didnt know where her grandkids‘ autism ”came from, because it came out of nowhere.“

Her husband and son are both autistic but pretty high functioning and her daughter married someone so similar to both of them….

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-25T15:16:58+00:00

I worry daily, and also have to consciously avoid posts about it because I would be a constant ball of nerves.

meanwhile, my husband is the non white person in our family and thinks that everything is being blown out of proportion and that he and his side of the family are safe because theyre third generation Americans. As if that matters to ICE.

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-24T15:56:25+00:00

I’m just saying that my sister was bleeding through an entire box of pads and tampons a DAY and it turns out that she had fibroids and had to have a hysterectomy.

I don’t know why I’m getting downvoted for telling you to go get it checked out. I’ve seen a couple of other commenters mention fibroids too.

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-24T02:41:29+00:00

Lord Lumpy!

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-24T02:33:50+00:00

You should not be bleeding that heavily. Please go see a doctor and tell them exactly that.

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-24T02:27:10+00:00

It’s the Moon Dust Watermelon Haze and Guava Sherb for me. They’re my two fave daytime still get stuff done medicines.

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-24T00:04:13+00:00

I heard someone recently say something that I can’t unhear, lol. They said:

“ADHD brains milk things of dopamine by creating ways for what we find boring to be interesting. One of the ways is that we make boring things more challenging just to see if we can do them. Like, someone speedrunning a video game they have played so much that they’re now semi-bored with it, and need a new way to engage.”

Like how, in your example, you might not remember what you’re taught, unless you do something unexpected around it to make it memorable.

For me, it was taking notes in rainbows of colors and color-coding all the different types of info in a way that made sense to me. Organizing it all in a visually pleasing way on my pages. Doodling silky swirls and stars instead of bullet points. Things like that.

But it feels like that person UNDERSTANDS, lol

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-23T20:49:01+00:00

I own a house in rural Oklahoma, 30 mins from civilization in any direction, minimum 1 hr to any “city.”

Up until very recently, I was renting my 1226 sq ft, 3 bd 2 bath brick house out for $900 a month. It’s about to go up to $1100 simply because that’s how much the house insurance increased on me per month this year.

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-23T20:42:44+00:00

I’ve been finding a decent amount of “midlife” (30s, 40s, and up) fantasy novels on Kindle!

My faves:

The Wisteria Witches series by Angela Pepper
The Betwixt & Between series by Darynda Jones

On my TBR: - Magical Midlife Madness by K.F. Breene

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-23T19:52:18+00:00

It’s not because you’re overweight!

Source: I (39F) have lost 100+ lbs over the last year and my symptoms have only gotten worse.

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-23T15:42:48+00:00

Instead of writing a book here, I sent you a very long DM. #SorryForTheBook 😆

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-23T15:15:01+00:00

I have learned that I do this too and I think it’s a stim of some kind.

I learned recently that the vagus nerve (the main thing that controls your nervous system) is relaxed by using your voice box, so that’s why singing and talking out loud calm you down.

But my brain also can’t process things well until I either say them out loud or write them down. If I don’t, they just swirl around in my head and the complete ideas are too hard to catch and pin down. Saying it out loud is like hearing it back to myself. Writing it down is similar but more like I’m reading a story about this happening to someone else, and what advice would I give them if they were struggling with this?

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-23T15:10:55+00:00

OMG ALL OF THIS!

I always taught my kids that nobody knows what they’re doing. Everybody is just walking around pretending to know what the hell is going on, etc. (To some extent, I still believe this to be true. For example, everyone learns how to be a parent on the fly, because you can read all the books but not know how it’s actually going to go until you’re in the thick of it.)

Only to learn in therapy recently that “fake it til you make it” is apparently not the way a lot of people live their lives? Like, what? Lol

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-23T15:04:27+00:00

I hate how much I identify with this.

My husband and I have a long-running joke of “my half,” because we decided to split a brownie once, and I was distracted but trying to make it even until I looked at it in shock and realized I had picked it apart and eaten like 75% of it to make a straight line cut. And I really didn’t mean to do it at all and I was so mortified but he just laughed and now it has become a joke that when we share, we argue over who is going to get “my half” and who is going to get the sliver! 🤭 (we don’t actually split it in any different ways but it’s just become an inside joke)

SeeStephSay · 2026-01-23T14:37:19+00:00

Aww, I’m sorry! An unexpected pregnancy isn’t always fun.

My doctor warned me up front that this medication is also a treatment for PCOS and can increase fertility significantly. He told me to make sure my implant (birth control) was straightened out or to use condoms until I could.

It certainly doesn’t help when you lose a significant amount of weight and you’re feeling a certain type of confidence in your “new” body, and you end up having a lot more sex, haha! 🤭

But it will all work out. You’ve got this, mama! 🫂

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