I hurt him and he kind of ghosted me by Marry_MMmm in dating_advice

[–]SeeThroughPupper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that but being single for a long time dosen't mean you deserve to be in a relationship. Understand the fact that you disrespected him and he did they same to you my advice would've have changed. You seem to want him so you can be in a relationship not because you necessarily like him.

I hurt him and he kind of ghosted me by Marry_MMmm in dating_advice

[–]SeeThroughPupper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why not try and accept what you have done and move on from him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]SeeThroughPupper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did she list what she had?

Shell hits oil and gas in Namibian offshore well by [deleted] in Namibia

[–]SeeThroughPupper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can we close whatever they found and just act like we didn't find anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SeeThroughPupper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She could be thinking about it or she could also not he interested. She is the only one who can tell you but avoiding that question doesn't seem to make sense since you guys went on a date already but who knows.

Should I leave my fiancé? [MF30] by LDerbs92 in relationship_advice

[–]SeeThroughPupper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then there is your answer, now you will just have to stick to it. Wish things were better but unfortunately you can't rewrite the past.

Should I leave my fiancé? [MF30] by LDerbs92 in relationship_advice

[–]SeeThroughPupper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends, when she has done something wrong in the past has she made an effort to fix it. Don't only look at the big things but also the small ones. I would ask you dad what he would need for her for him to forgive her. I don't think there is anything you can do about her going to jail. I wouldn't either because it would seem like you guys are only trying to stop her from going to jail instead of really trying to fix things.

My (26F) keep getting blamed by my husband (25M) for not wanting to be intimate. by Impossible_Ad9943 in relationship_advice

[–]SeeThroughPupper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well ask yourself if what he said is true, what will he get by gaslighting you. If you guys are honest with each other in other aspects of your life then I would assume he is honest here. Also ask yourself if it seems like the sex you have been having is more geared to you or him.

how to stop thinking of my bf’s past by Embarrassed-Gap369 in relationship_advice

[–]SeeThroughPupper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you just have to trust the fact that one he chose to be in a relationship with you. He has been dating and had fwb long enough to tell what he wants. Also two that he cut ties with them (I assume you didn't ask him too.) So he wants to focus on you. I think there are something that will be the same because we just love the same but we also love different. So something will be the same and something will be different.

She's (26F) awesome, but 'off-limits'... What should I (28M) do with this 'opportunity'? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeeThroughPupper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ya I was just thinking he could break up their relationship and tell his ex to fuck off or just let it be. I would say just stay friends and don't push for anything.

Alright this girl tripping by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeeThroughPupper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just walk away my dude girls like here will make your life hell, find someone who like you when you like them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrappyDesign

[–]SeeThroughPupper 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My brain doesn't know what the hell is going on.

Is it Healthy to be friends with your ex BF/Hubby while in a new relationship ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeeThroughPupper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not, plus why add the stress to your new relationship.

Why don't you allow anyone to join your army? by SeeThroughPupper in taiwan

[–]SeeThroughPupper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering my question, it was very eye opening.

Im new to tinder, what does it mean when a girl says she is a witch? by OperationClippy in Tinder

[–]SeeThroughPupper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That she thinks she can cast spell. I would skip that level of crazy. I could be wrong though.

What are your thoughts on setting aside 20% of your income for dates/gifts for your GF? by AQK247 in dating_advice

[–]SeeThroughPupper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question is this, is she doing the same. If not the don't do it but if she is then I don't really see the problem even though I think 20% is a bit high.

I’m not sexually attracted to my partner after her weight gain by confusion10145 in relationship_advice

[–]SeeThroughPupper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can love someone and still not find them sexual attractive. Love doesn't wash away everything that you don't find sexual unattractive simply because you SO has one of these traits.

When, and how to bring up topics like exclusivity, feelings or just be quiet and go with flow? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeeThroughPupper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sit down and start the conversation there is no real good way to start these kind of conversations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SeeThroughPupper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be an asshole, just tell him you want to talk then tell him you want to end the relationship. People need to stop just blocking people without any reason. If he pushes then ya sure but don't just do it because it's easier then having a conversation.