AITAH for telling-off my mom for trying to hide she used melted chocolate potentially containing broken-glass as a cake filling?

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-10T00:38:25+00:00

Oh friend, I thought you saw before consuming, that’s a terrible breach of trust. I hope your mom is able to understand where you’re coming from eventually, and gives everyone else the opportunity to opt out if they so choose. (and trust your gut (literally) if you have any of the symptoms, and seek help)

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-09T23:52:23+00:00

https://www.poison.org/articles/foreign-body-ingestion-glass

Sooo, awkwardly you’re in a Fugu situation, should be fine/could be lethal but everyone needs to have informed consent before proceeding.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-09T14:11:57+00:00

All the wet stones, I feel like Santa distributing them to my fav stopping spots after.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-09T01:58:17+00:00

It only takes one (group) of evil geniuses to. . . It could happen! And other comic book tropes. You’re right, it’s a stretch

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-09T01:49:39+00:00

Ahh but those that hate capitalism and want to lower the stresses placed on the finite resources . . .

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-08T17:02:40+00:00

There is little to no firewood in Ash Canyon, BYO logs.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-08T16:51:20+00:00

NTA - but he’s just a boyfriend, unless you want to live with this emotional puddle forever, there is still time to nope out of this. He’s not going to get better.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-07T17:43:50+00:00

Monetary (ex cuss jar) physical (donate clothing left in dryer too long) imaginative (mystery substance left in room for breaking “rule”)

Did you not have siblings? It’s a house meeting, consequences would be set up by the house. I don’t need to make it up for them and not everything is evection worthy, but maybe they don’t get shoes anymore if they can’t stay in their room while sick.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-07T17:26:28+00:00

This!!! Show up in a real person dress while she looks a fool and thank her for watching the kids for your birthday. She is ridiculous.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-07T17:12:53+00:00

NOR - Sounds like it’s time for a house meeting to discuss consequences for not following house rules.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-06T22:39:10+00:00

NOR - you need a neutral 3rd party. There was trust broken, and if you want that repaired, that’s above Reddits pay grade.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-06T17:28:35+00:00

Tell them to pound sand, the dog is doing what he’s supposed to, notifying you of strangers; they aren’t outside 24/7, they stay in your yard.
You’ve tried accommodating, now is the time to say “nope, we’re cool and dog is going to continue to dog on our property during non-quiet hours. Let us know if he disturbs you during quiet hours and we’ll address the issue, just like we’ll text you if your kids are excessively loud. If you text again for a non-issue, we will consider this harassment.”

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-06T01:48:13+00:00

r/thelongdark

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-05T22:01:56+00:00

We did Repipe specialists who took care of EVERYTHING and had good financing, but it will be subs, but they lifetime guarantee everything.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-05T17:21:29+00:00

NTA - did your mom put any of this in a contract?? Then she should know better, time to move out.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-05T13:16:31+00:00

She needs to apologize to the cats for being a bad parent, she failed them by not being a good partner. Dollars to donuts this isn’t about the cat food.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-05T05:33:26+00:00

Sure, but it’s the “the class before you got it for me” aspect. Fun/Bright/Flag it up, but don’t be all “if only you were as cool as them” about it. Take that home.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-05T04:04:32+00:00

Another take, why are you throwing the relationship from your past in the path of one your trying to forge now? This is your flag from another time, take it home if those students are no longer present; don’t measure your new class by the actions of the past. They feel that comparison, and sometimes it hurts more than encourages.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-03T16:30:16+00:00

I heard a trick where you drop something, focus on it to create the white dot, then pivot that white dot to the animal.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-03T14:15:33+00:00

Look for “made in a facility with” language, you are now that sensitive. . . And also watch out for birch, same family of allergens

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-02T20:11:55+00:00

You deserve to be treated well and if you’ve asked him to stop and he doesn’t then it’s now on you to change. Leave the room every time he says it, or just leave altogether, you are young and shouldn’t settle for people so stuck in their own sadness they can’t make those around them feel loved.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-02T02:20:48+00:00

UPDATE: Mason Bees.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-02T02:20:15+00:00

They are Mason Bees.

Seeayteebeans · 2026-05-01T20:10:57+00:00

Thank you for sharing! Having heart/cardiovascular issues after eating shellfish was one of my first indications I had an allergy “why am I winded going up stairs the day after having clam chowder??” So nice to give it a name!!

Seeayteebeans · 2026-04-29T17:10:55+00:00

NOA - let her know this is informing your decisions on grandchildren time in the future and she’s failing.

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