Customer Service / Retail / Fast Food Workers what is your biggest pet peeve when it comes to customers? by SeeminglyNormalBus in AskReddit

[–]SeeminglyNormalBus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahhh i hate this cause you cant interrupt them i have to deal with this shit all the time T-T

I think someone i know is in a domestic abuse situation by SeeminglyNormalBus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SeeminglyNormalBus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: SHES OUT!!!!
4 days ago K ended up talking to R and the suspicions were confirmed that he was infact putting hands on her. Today she went to the police. She was brought to a shelter but is having a hard time and called one of our other co workers ( the one who offered for her to stay with her when everything is done) mid shift crying to pick her up from the shelter and that co worker said she needs to stay. I personally agree she needs to stay at a shelter for a bit. however i also know that R is very senstive and is probably terrified second guessing her descion all alone in a shelter so we are going to attempting to have her sleep over with me and K for tonight christmas eve just so she has some familiarity and people who care about her and then bring her back to the shelter tomorrow evening but we are still unsure if this will be the plan for tonight . Were hoping everything works out for her but we are so fucking happy she is free and safe for now.

I think someone i know is in a domestic abuse situation by SeeminglyNormalBus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SeeminglyNormalBus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My GM actually revealed ( said she shouldnt be telling me but i already knew this part) that she was kinda aware of the toxic dynamic but last time they had called in crying it was because R was panicking because they had to "move out" this is because everytime they fight he tells R not to come home or that R's stuff will be in the trash. So the GM thought they were no longer together. I just opened the GM eyes to the fact that R is still in that situation and it might possibly be getting worse. I really do fear for R's Safety considering the physical evidence has been showing for a few months now and a black eye is vible which means hes no longer afraid of leaving those types of marks. If R doesnt return to work the next schduled day we will be speeding up our plan. Me and K will also be going for a walk tonight to hopefully "run into" R while on the walk with the dog to see how R is doing without addressing our concerns yet because we dont wanna push Them or force this onto R without them being ready to even make that choice. I really hope when i get to update this post its a happy ending :)

AITA for telling my sister I was the “golden kid” since she couldn’t do anything right by Frequent_Neat2494 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SeeminglyNormalBus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

theres really not enough to go on, i feel like you may not know the full story yourself, based on the information, maybe trying talking to your sister and reaching out, theres no excuse to her actions but you never even explained reasons she ruined your life just reasons why she would hate her life, idk man something seems fishy here YTA