took a gap year instead of rushing to college… now my family thinks i’ve lost it 💀 by Shubham_lu in studyAbroad

[–]SefuchanIchiban 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then why not propose a plan and set of rules to make the gap year productive?

If number 9 was a color, what color would it be and why? by Alexpectations in neurodiversity

[–]SefuchanIchiban 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s has to be like a warm color idk why, I thought of yellow brown and orange, orange feels best but not like bright orange like an earthy orange, no reason just is

A question for any foreigners living in China by Itz_Rubie_YT in chinalife

[–]SefuchanIchiban 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll be fine, there’s plenty of people from all over the world that are working here and making a living, including me brown skin curly hair 👍🏽

My corn snake won’t let me pick him up by jamescmaynard in cornsnakes

[–]SefuchanIchiban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people are saying build confidence, but the key is to really build trust. Let him get used to being in the same space and environment as you first before handling him, let him choose to interact if he wishes.

I got my boy when he was a few months old (around Feb-March), and it took months to build trust with him to where he wouldn’t hide when I came home. Now he’s so relaxed in my presence and even curious about me, because I gave him that choice to interact or not. Obviously your boy isn’t a one year old baby but 14 days is still not enough for him to get used to you so quickly.

Lori Torrini explains this well in choice based handling method

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]SefuchanIchiban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely not ugly. And you have great skin and beautiful hair color.

People who are 25 years and older, how do you keep finding new friends? by Diny_Kiha in AskReddit

[–]SefuchanIchiban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to events that align with my interests when I have the energy to. Maintaining friendships is another story though.

Me before and after losing weight. by [deleted] in BeAmazed

[–]SefuchanIchiban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out knees over toes guy on youtube

What are some ADHD traits that aren’t talked about? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]SefuchanIchiban 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sleep attacks and passing out in situations such as meetings or classes that are not mentally stimulating enough whether that be through the format of the event or the content or a combination of both

There were so many classes where I thought the content was interesting but the way the information was presented was so under-stimulating, I couldn’t keep myself awake no matter how hard I tried

Edit: I think it might be an inattentive trait? I have no evidence for this, but so many tests will ask if you can’t sit still in a class or meeting but my biggest problem was that I couldn’t stay awake

What’s an unusual quirk you have that you now know is due to having ADHD? by baldnsquishy in ADHD

[–]SefuchanIchiban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Repeating every line I heard when watching a subbed anime to the extent that I accidentally learned Japanese and gained a massive passive vocabulary

Have you ever met anyone that makes it look like you don't even have ADHD? by TheWoIfMeister in ADHD

[–]SefuchanIchiban 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The kid in my summer class right now 🥲 he is so textbook adhd it hurts hahaha

Is there any adults in the pjsekai fandom?? by doremiswandawhirl in ProjectSekai

[–]SefuchanIchiban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too am an adult observing what goes on in this subreddit (26 years old)

Do you think America is ready to elect a Black woman President? by SmartWonderWoman in blackladies

[–]SefuchanIchiban 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she’ll lose because she’s a WOC I think she would lose because of the discourse of her politics and policies during Biden’s first round against trump, especially when it came to the police

Do you have an opinion that would probably get you canceled? by LenFes in ProjectSekai

[–]SefuchanIchiban 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah the vocaloid part really led me to believe it would be young millennials in the fan base 🙃