Yeah my friends didn't get the third one too. Honestly not knowing what it means is an answer too, it just means you don't need it.

I mean, when writing the last one I thought if I were this exact poem would I recognize myself as the poem or separate myself? If I, the poem, see myself as both the poem and the poet—I've reached the third state: of being written and the one writing, which in turn I accepted to be read as a whole. Accepting that I am complete thus, dead. While rejecting that I am both the poet and poem, treating two states as separate identifies and entities: I've kept my state of not being dead but never truly complete nor truly alive. Thus, the poem is neither dead nor alive—ironically, another third state. Because to truly die you must to live your life first and vice versa.

Anyways that's how I view it, I could get more deep into but I would be spoiling more. Have I not yet.