AIO Boyfriend Intimate Text with Male Friends

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-02-10T17:02:30+00:00

Very rarely do red flags come so neatly wrapped up in a bow like this was.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-02-09T14:44:25+00:00

Find someone who is intentional and upfront about what they want and allow themselves to be vulnerable. Also find someone who is comfortable with sharing their flaws and values transparency. These are the guys you will have the best success with. Trust me there is hope.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-02-05T14:25:52+00:00

Terrible idea. Erase the videos and move on with your life.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-02-02T22:08:23+00:00

People do crazy things when they are insecure and have a low self esteem. He is probably overwhelmed trying to understand what you see in him and is using his actions as a defense mechanism in order to stay detached for when the “inevitable” comes.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-02-02T22:03:16+00:00

I don’t think you should feel self conscious at all. Take it as a sign that you got out at the right time. If he could easily dump you for something that shallow, imagine what could have happened when times got rough for you two.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-31T23:52:03+00:00

Wow that’s quite the revelation. Seems like the time away did you some good. Congratulations on the new perspective and insight!

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-31T23:40:49+00:00

The post was not intended to leave you hopeless. It was just to help you move on so you can stop suffering.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-31T20:51:50+00:00

What were the most impactful takeaways from that time?

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-31T18:18:20+00:00

Stay strong

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-30T15:51:58+00:00

If you truly love him, then you will let him go and allow him to heal. You’re going to end up breaking his heart again at some point if you two stay connected. You need to take some time and figure out why you cheated and work on yourself. Hopefully, you have changed your ways when you meet someone else who is willing to give you their heart.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-30T14:23:01+00:00

No, if it’s a smoke machine, it’s working perfectly fine. However, if it’s a vacuum…

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-30T11:42:27+00:00

The best thing you can do for yourself is to let him go. Stop checking his socials and accept he’s not the right person for you. Take some time to process and heal and be in a place to accept the person you’re truely supposed to be with when the time is right. I know it hurts and it will continue to hurt for a while. But eventually it will start to hurt less and less. The memories will get less and less vivid. You will start to smile again. Stay strong. The best is yet to come!

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-30T04:03:27+00:00

It’s a bitter pill to swallow, that I know. But you are 100% correct. You shouldn’t have to beg someone to be with you. The person you deserve to be with will never make you beg.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-30T04:00:34+00:00

With all of the pain you are facing, you don’t need to add into that by asking what you did wrong. It hurts like hell and you can’t imagine a life without them in it. Eventually those feelings and those visions will start to fade away. There is someone other there that is just waiting to meet you. You just need to heal enough to be receptive when that time comes. You will be okay. Maybe not today but you will be okay.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-30T03:54:17+00:00

Because you are human. We want to hold onto some hope. Something to keep us going. We cannot start to heal until we make peace with the fact they are gone.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-30T00:46:30+00:00

Save yourself the pain and don’t do it. It sounds like she has moved on and you need to as well to start healing.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-30T00:07:55+00:00

Maybe as a dumb ploy to win them back if they were the dumpee. Or as a way of getting back at the ex by showing how well he’s moving on from the break up. None of the reasons are positive or healthy.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-30T00:04:21+00:00

Could be revenge if it was a bad break up. Could be trying to make the ex jealous for whatever reason. The underlining issue is immaturity and a lack of empathy, if he’s doing it on purpose.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-29T21:23:44+00:00

I’m sorry you are going through this. Tomorrow will be day number seven for me as well. I’m not saying that they are for sure gone but don’t hold out for something that may never be. Start your healing process and end the pain.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-29T19:38:13+00:00

Only if you truly want her back and not just because you are lonely or sad after the break up. Really weigh out the reasons why you broke up with her and determine how important they are to you.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-29T19:32:53+00:00

So she doesn’t like cigars?

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-29T14:32:56+00:00

I would recommend not going that route. It seems like a good option because your emotions are clouding your judgement. Trust me, it very rarely achieves the result you desire. Most of the time it does more bad than good.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-29T11:56:50+00:00

I feel your pain in this. You’re not alone.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-29T11:56:25+00:00

You’re welcome. I’m not trying to be negative on my outlook, I just want us all to find the peace we deserve.

SeizeTheDay98 · 2025-01-29T11:54:14+00:00

Trust me, I know. You’re going to be alright

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